Telling Your Partner Something Delicate

Honey, We Need To Talk – How do you tell your partner they’re doing something you don’t like? Most people like to think they’re great in the sack. Every person does at least one thing that they’re partner doesn’t like. It can be difficult telling someone that you don’t like what they’re doing. How do you do it in a way that doesn’t make them feel uncomfortable? Feeling uncomfortable in the bedroom, can actually wreck a relationship. Your partner could very well be doing something that isn’t pleasureful, or in fact hurts.

Break It To Them Gently – The first thing you want to do is make sure that you’re breaking the news in a way that isn’t angry or hurtful. You don’t want to scream down their throat that you don’t like them gnawing on your testicles. You may end up with a tooth stuck right in the middle of one by doing so. Instead, be calm and upfront about it. Tell them what you like about what they’re doing. Then, tell them what you don’t like. You should go into it thinking that they very well may be heart broken by what you say. This can be especially true if you’re talking about an issue with their sexual performance in general.

That’s Not Wood You’re Gnawing On – Understanding that a topic such as this can be quite sensitive is important for how you address it. Feelings can easily be hurt and this is why you need to skate on thin ice. It’s either that, or live with a raw clitoris every time your partner goes down on you. That’s probably not something you’re going to want to live with for the rest of your life. So, you better find a way to break it to your partner without causing them a nervous breakdown.

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