Going Down – Have you eaten any pussy lately? If you have, then you’ve certainly done something wrong. There are a million articles on the internet that tell you how to perform oral sex on a woman. Very few of them tell you what not to do. That’s what’s going to be discussed here.
Tease That Pussy – All guys and some gals need to know what to avoid when it comes to going down on their partner. The first rule of thumb when it comes to performing oral sex on a woman is not to eat it. If you’re hungry, go grab something to eat. Chewing and gnawing on a pussy won’t do anything other than cause pain. Stick to licking and sucking. Be very in tune with how your partner reacts when you lick certain areas. You’ll want to pay more attention on those that are more pleasureful. Don’t use your teeth. If you wear false teeth, take them out before performing oral sex. This will remove all possibilities of you biting them. There’s no part of the pussy that you want to bite. You need to get that through your thick skull.
Please Your Partner – The goal isn’t to just make your partner feel good. What you’re trying to do is score again. You want to eat pussy again in the not so distant future. If you do a good job, you’ll more than likely find yourself face deep in her pussy sooner rather than later. Don’t be in a hurry. Take your time and savor each moment. Getting to know your partner’s pussy is one of the best investments of time you’ll ever make. Learning how to sexually please your partner is the most important education you’ll ever receive. The next time you go down on her, don’t bite. Don’t chew. Just lick and suck. If you follow this simple guideline she’s going to be like putty in your hands.
Say What – The double standard is alive and well in the dating game, or the sex game is more accurate. I read an article recently that spoke of the differences in people and casual sex, oral sex specifically. It said how getting a blow job for a guy was pretty common, yet women were certainly not getting anywhere near the same amount of downtown action. Seems a bj is pretty casual and standard, but for a guy to go downtown on a lady he needs to know her better. What utter nonsense, couldn’t think it true, but it is.
Equal Rights Orgasms – A guy I chat with said the same thing, how he gets bj’s all the time and expects them-yet he’d never go down on a woman the same way unless she was a girlfriend. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, yet he was so matter of fact about it. He said they didn’t ask either, so it’s not like he was declining them when they asked, but I wonder, why are they not? Why is a woman’s sexual desire or needs any less than a man’s? Does a woman need to feel she knows someone better before allowing that level of intimacy? Yet why is it different to give one to a guy casually? I don’t understand.
Going Downtown – Just a generation ago, oral sex was considered a lot more intimate than intercourse, and not something that would be doled out so casually, yet since the rise of AIDS, it’s seemed a safer option than full on sex . And lest we forget the, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman…” (In other words, she gave me a bj, but I didn’t fuck her.) So oral is thought of by many to not even BE sex. It’s a confusing world these days, but I just don’t think it’s fair that women are seemingly doing all the giving and are apparently content to do so. It’s important to reciprocate, or don’t ask or expect someone else to do something you’re not willing to yourself.