Finger My Ass, Please – Your heart is beating fast right now. You’re shaking and definitely confused. Collect your thoughts. There’s no reason to freak out. You’ve got to get a hold of yourself! Your man only asked you to stick a finger up his asshole. It’s not the end of the world. Sure, it may be a little gross at first. That doesn’t mean you’re not going to like sticking a finger up his poop chute eventually. It’s not uncommon for a man to want to have his prostate stimulated during oral sex. Many men actually enjoy it. However, shouldn’t finger bang your man’s asshole without his permission. The shock of having a finger shoved where the sun doesn’t shine may be something he can’t recover from. Keep the asshole fingering as an optional blowjob accessory. It doesn’t always have to be a package deal.
Enhance Oral Sex – Don’t flip out if your man wants you to shove a finger up his ass while you’re sucking his dick. If it freaks you out, don’t do it. You can also put on a rubber glove before doing it. You’re not going to want to use one of those yellow dish washing gloves. The latex variety that medical professionals use are what you want. You should be able to find these at any drug store. They actually do make something called finger condoms. These are generally used by people in the tech industry. They do exist, but you may have a difficult time finding them.
Tickle My Prostate – Try pounding his asshole with one of your digits. Ask him what feels good and what doesn’t. That’s the only way you’ll learn what your man likes. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, simply stop. There’s no reason why anyone should feel uncomfortable during sex. You may find your partner’s added pleasure very exciting. If this is the case, it may just become second nature. Just don’t forget to wash your hand afterwards. You’ll be left with a stinky finger if you don’t.
Can I Touch You There? – Let’s talk about prostate stimulation. Many guys enjoy it. This is when a finger or a toy is inserted in a guy’s asshole. Yes, we’re talking about the asshole. A man doesn’t have to be gay to enjoy the feeling of something going in and out of his asshole. Remember, it’s about more than just the asshole itself. What your guy is enjoying is having his prostate stimulated. There’s nothing gay or wrong about it. It’s a common thing and shouldn’t be surprising to anyone. A finger up the asshole is all it takes.
Come Here – You’ll want to do it in a “come here” type of motion. A curled finger is what will feel the best. What you’re trying to do is find the prostate. You’ll know that you’ve found it when you’re touching something that’s about the size of a walnut. Don’t be surprised if you don’t find it the first time. Are you freaked out about sticking your finger up a guy’s asshole? Don’t be. Don’t forget that you can and should wash your hands later. Stimulating the prostate during oral sex will send your guy into blast off mode. It’ll create pleasure like nothing else can.
Up Yours – Butt plugs and dildos are made specifically for prostate stimulation. You can easily find them at sex toy shops online or at your local adult bookstore. Do your research and find the right one. Generally speaking, any dildo or vibrator that’s thin should do the trick. A costly, specially made toy isn’t necessary. Though, if you’ve got the extra money to spend, it can be a wise investment. Your guy will enjoy having his prostate stimulated by a high quality state of the art toy that will produce a level of pleasure that neither of you will forget any time soon.