Stroking and Typing – Some of you reading this may think that cyber sex or sexting is a thing of the past. You may even remember back in the 90’s when people had cybersex in chat rooms. By today’s standards that seems very low tech, but back then, it was state of the art. The idea of beating your meat while talking to someone around the world was jaw-dropping. Fast forward it to the modern day and cybersex is still a thing. Sure, it’s something most people don’t do. They can easily talk on the phone, Skype, or even live cam. With that said, you should give cybersex chat rooms and sexting sites a try. Below we’re going to provide you with a brief description of both. They are two very different things should be approached as such.
What is Cyber Sex? – Cybersex is when you talk to someone sexually using mediums such as chat rooms, instant messengers, or other means of text communication. The critical thing here is that it’s back and forth chat that is usually instantaneous. It’s like phone sex, but you’re typing everything out. You’ve got to be pretty good at typing with one hand to pull this off.
Sexting Requires a Phone – Sexting uses text messages that you send back and forth to each other. They are generally sexual, but you’re probably not going to be masturbating while sexting. You should think of sexting as being more flirtatious than cybersex. When it comes to sexting, you’re trying to get each other’s juices flowing. It’s entirely possible that sexting could lead to cyber sex. The great thing about sexting is that the messages can be traded back and forth throughout the day, whereas cybersex is more akin to chatting in real time.
Do it with your lover or a stranger – Sexting and cybersex are great things to keep your relationship fresh. You can send your significant other messages throughout the day that are naughty. It always feels good to know that someone is thinking of you sexually. Though, you can also sext and have cybersex with strangers. No rule says you have to know the person. You can meet someone online and have a cybersex session. It’s a great way to release some sexual tension without having to worry about things such as sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
Sexy Texting – Many of you reading this know what sexting is. Quite a few of you have probably done it at least once. Sexting is sending dirty messages via text message. Think of it as cyber sex of the modern era. The mobile aspect of this is what’s the most attractive. You can sext just about anywhere your imagination will allow it. Just keep in mind you may not want to become fully aroused in some areas. You’re more than likely not going to be able to relieve your arousal while in public. Just something to keep in the back of your mind the next time your sexting while on the bus.
Hot Messages – Why not sext with your partner? Sure, it’s not sex. Does it have to be? No it doesn’t. You don’t need to have sex with them to get all hot and bothered. Remember, sex isn’t just about pleasure. You’re trying to connect to your partner on a much deeper level. This is why sexting can be an important part of your relationship. It’ll enable you to maintain a level of sexual contact with your partner. You’ll be able to let them know you’re still interested with them. So, you don’t want to go full force and text your partner about anal sex? There are some people out there who aren’t really into the whole sexting thing. Still, you can flirt with them. You know the limits your partner is willing to go. Why not tell them how much you’re looking forward to a kiss later on today? Tell them how much you find them attractive.
Naughty Letters – It’s important for your partner to know these things. Give sexting a try. Warm up to it. Don’t get dirty right away. You don’t have to write an erotic novel. All you’re trying to do is have a little fun with each other. Be creative. Explore and learn new things about each other. This is what can make sexting truly valuable. You can say things in a text message that may be uncomfortable in a one on one situation. Make the most of this technology and use it to enhance your love life.