Sex Is More Than A Sport – Can two people have sex without being in love? Sure they can. All it takes is a little arousal and you’re off to the races. Does that mean you should have sex with someone who you don’t love? This is a question that many people today aren’t asking themselves. Sex is viewed as a recreational activity and not love making. The short answer to this simple question is no. You should not have sex with someone whom you aren’t in love with.
Sexual Compatibility – All of this seems to contradict the popular mindset people have today towards sex. The best sex you’ll ever has is with someone who understands your body. Every person is wonderfully uniquely different. It takes time to get to know someone’s body. There are no shortcuts to great sex. There is no need to settle for anything other than the best when it comes to sex. Why should you? Your goal should be to hit as many grand slams in the sack as possible. Striking out is all too common for people who feed their sexual appetite one night stands. Having sex with someone you love has all kinds of benefits. You’re able to try new and exciting things. You’ll be more comfortable in the bed with someone. Trying new things can be quite embarrassing. You’ll feel far less embarrassed with someone you’re comfortable with.
How Deep Is Your Love – Sex isn’t a sport. You don’t win anything for having sex with enormous amounts of people. The only thing you score is an STD. Which, isn’t much of a consolation prize after second rate sex. Stability is what you should be searching for in all aspects of your life. Your sex life is no different. Fall in love. Enjoy the happiness that being in love has to offer. Also, enjoy the great sex. You’ll discover that the sex is a hundred times better. There is no replacement in your life for love. You may spend a lifetime trying to find a replacement. You’ll never find one. Every day of your life should be filled with love. This is the secret to happiness that people today have forgotten. Don’t be one of those people. Fall head over heals, enjoy great sex, and spend your days smiling.
Honey, We Need To Talk – How do you tell your partner they’re doing something you don’t like? Most people like to think they’re great in the sack. Every person does at least one thing that they’re partner doesn’t like. It can be difficult telling someone that you don’t like what they’re doing. How do you do it in a way that doesn’t make them feel uncomfortable? Feeling uncomfortable in the bedroom, can actually wreck a relationship. Your partner could very well be doing something that isn’t pleasureful, or in fact hurts.
Break It To Them Gently – The first thing you want to do is make sure that you’re breaking the news in a way that isn’t angry or hurtful. You don’t want to scream down their throat that you don’t like them gnawing on your testicles. You may end up with a tooth stuck right in the middle of one by doing so. Instead, be calm and upfront about it. Tell them what you like about what they’re doing. Then, tell them what you don’t like. You should go into it thinking that they very well may be heart broken by what you say. This can be especially true if you’re talking about an issue with their sexual performance in general.
That’s Not Wood You’re Gnawing On – Understanding that a topic such as this can be quite sensitive is important for how you address it. Feelings can easily be hurt and this is why you need to skate on thin ice. It’s either that, or live with a raw clitoris every time your partner goes down on you. That’s probably not something you’re going to want to live with for the rest of your life. So, you better find a way to break it to your partner without causing them a nervous breakdown.
Please Don’t Hurt Me – So what do you do when one of your online fun partners gets more serious about you than you are about them or vice versa? It’s not a pleasant situation and I’ve been on both sides of this. Cam, phone sex and cybering are all important activities to the ones involved in them. Guys, and I assume gals, fall into different categories in our online play. Some are fun, like friends we play with, joke around with, but it never gets serious.
I Love You So Much – Friends like these though, it never gets intense and intensity, to some of us anyway, can be like that hit of heroin. Intensity is what makes us feel alive and crave more. Some partners can be like this, even ones that can be total nut jobs we’re better staying away from, they have a pull, a draw, and we can’t get enough. It’s a sad thing when one of you feels more deeply about the other, someone is bound to get hurt. Some want to meet in real life and when the other one doesn’t want to, you can feel very hurt and rejected by this person that has come to mean so much to you, and to them sadly they just view you as an online fun partner and nothing more.
It Felt So Real – I always remember one guy I chatted with that said he never phoned with a girl more than once because he “didn’t want them falling in love with him.” I recall laughing so hard thinking what a high opinion he had of himself to come to this bizarre way of thinking. Obviously he and many others wish to avoid drama, and emotional messiness which can sometimes result when feelings become involved. It is very, very cruel to ever lead anyone on and make them believe in any way something real and offline can result if you do not indeed feel that way, and several people I’ve known like to heighten things and make it seem like a possibility when in fact it’s just adding a further dimension of enjoyment to make it seem real.
You Broke My Heart – The more vulnerable party gets very badly emotionally crushed as a result. Be careful when someone hands you their heart. And sadly when things like this happen, and one gets hurt, you often lose the best masturbation partner you ever had because it can’t ever go back to being how it was before. The one doing the heartbreaking often feels badly they’ve hurt the other person, and the one pining away often feels so rejected and foolish they can’t enjoy the other person anymore.
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