Just Can’t Get Enough – You have lots of sex. You have more sex than anyone you know. There’s just one problem and it’s a big one. You’re not sexually satisfied. All of your friends complain that they don’t get enough sex. That’s not your problem. You’re simply not satisfied with the sex that you have. This isn’t as uncommon as you may think. Many new couples have this problem and it’s easily fixed. Every person likes something different in the sack. No two people are exactly alike. You and your partner need to be comfortable around each other.
Tell Me What You Like – Communication is key to having a great sex life. There’s something else that can really help you along the way. That would be, mutual masturbation. That may sound boring to many people out there. After all, it’s not sex. Mutual masturbation is less about pleasure and more about education. You can educate your partner about what you like. Your partner isn’t a mind reader. They don’t know what you like. You must show and tell them. Teach them where to touch, lick, and suck. There is no other way that they’ll ever know. Trial and error takes way too long. There’s no need to beat around the bush about something like this. Just make sure that you talk about it in an appropriate manner. There’s no need to berate or belittle someone about such things.
Can You Touch Me There – Take their hand and show them what and where you like to be stimulated. This will give them a hands on lesson. You can also simply sit in front of them and have them watch. Maybe the two of you can pleasure yourselves while you watch. Sex is a normal and healthy part of any relationship. You should never feel uncomfortable talking about sex or enjoying it. Get past your shyness and open up yourself to a new world of possibilities.
Stop Masturbating? – Want to improve the quality of sex that you have? Give up masturbating. The world isn’t coming to an end. You don’t need to hide beneath your bed. Masturbation is a great tool for those who aren’t getting any sex. This article isn’t for those of you that don’t get laid. Masturbation can ruin your sexual appetite. It can make you not want to have sex with your partner. Ever wonder why your partner isn’t chasing you around the house begging for sex? They’re probably masturbating and it’s taking away their urge to have sex. This has a negative impact on several aspects of a relationship.
Build Up Your Sexual Appetite – All of which will eventually trickle right down into the bedroom. Don’t allow your natural sex drive to be tampered down by masturbating. There’s nothing wrong with being horny. Allowing yourself to be horny will make your partner feel more attractive. Masturbation can dull your senses and make you less interested in your partner. This is the true hazard of playing with yourself. It’s not going blind or developing hairy palms. It’s a lack of sex drive that very well could be translated into a lack of desire. No one wants to share a bed with someone that doesn’t find them desirable. Cut back masturbating to just a few times per month. The fewer times, the better.
Quality, Not Quantity – Work harder at increasing the amount of sex you have. Masturbation is a lot like fast food. Sure, it’s easy and it gets rid of the hunger. However, it’ll leave you wanting more each and every time. This is why you shouldn’t eat cheeseburgers every day. Your body will be left wanting more, as fast food is devoid of nutrients and anything healthy. The same thing on some level could be said about masturbation. The difference is, masturbation on some level is healthy. Just make sure you’re having sex more often than you masturbate.
What’s Love Got To Do With It? – Love and sex are two very different things. It can be easily mashed up into something that doesn’t reflect reality. The difference tends to go along the lines of how men and women think. A man can easily have sex with a woman and have no feelings of love towards her at all. For men, sex is much like food. You probably don’t feel all warm and fuzzy for a cheeseburger you’re about to eat. The same could be said in many sexual situations that men find themselves in.
Let’s Keep It Casual – Sex for a man is more about availability than anything else. A woman has sex with a man for emotional reasons. Most often than not, it’s all about love. The woman feels an emotional connection to the man and has sex with him. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some women who can freely have sex without any feeling of attachment. This isn’t the norm and women who are honest with themselves understand this.
Why Do You Want Me ? – The differences in male and female sexuality is merely about how we perceive the world around us. Why is this important? We live in a society were we’re constantly trying to read in between the lines. Why does this guy want to fuck me? Why did she suck my cock last night? Look deeper into the reasoning behind the person’s actions. By doing so you’ll understand what their intent is. Maybe the chick that blew you last night was just drunk and horny. The guy that keeps chasing you around the office really may be in love with you. Don’t ever allow yourself to read into something that may not exist. Your guy friend may just want some pussy and he doesn’t really care about your love of artisan cheese in the slightest. Understand the motivation of people in your sex life will help you to determine what type of relationship is right.
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Wild Women – Lots of people think an adult site like this one is mainly for guys, primarily a sausage fest. On many sites that is true yes. We here are proud to have such an equal ratio of men to women. It’s actually only around 5% more men, which for a social site is fairly rare. The feminine color scheme and the fact that it is solely female owed and operated may perhaps make the ladies feel more welcome. We know women can have just as high of a sex drive as men. Lots of ladies here like to play with other ladies as well.
Masturbation Acceptance – People these days don’t think anything of masturbating, especially on a site like this, after all, masturbation is the basis of the website! Stories to masturbate with, or the chat rooms to find masturbation partners in. Even though the internet didn’t exist 30 years ago, imagine if it did, people were much more embarrassed and ashamed to admit that they masturbated than now, so be glad things have become more liberal sexually today than ever before, but we still have a long ways to go. Some young people especially are embarrassed. It’s a shame more don’t understand the sex drive is a normal one just like thirst or hunger.
Perverts Paradise – This is said in jest obviously, I know most here aren’t perverts, well, some are for sure but not all! Adding variety to your sex life is important and keeps things interesting for you. Variety is not only important with sex with a partner, but for your solo fun as well. The same old routine can get boring. Finding new partners to masturbate with, new erotic short stories to read, all of that can spice things up for yourself. So expand your circle of masturbation partners. Being exclusive is boring, no matter how fantastic they are. Even steak every night gets boring.
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