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Can Your Relationship Survive Infidelity?

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Can You Survive? – Can a relationship survive cheating? Many people face this very question. The short answer is yes. A relationship can withstand cheating. That doesn’t mean all should. It also doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be some fallout from the cheating as well. Cheating is far more about the physical act of having sex with someone else. The fact is, cheating can happen without someone having sex.

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Your Cheating Heart – Cheating is defined by the people in the relationship. It could simply mean kissing someone else. For some couples even steamy online chats may constitute cheating. What should you do when you find out if your partner has cheated? The first thing you need to do is to make sure the cheating has stopped. Then you need to determine what kind of cheating took place. You need to see a doctor immediately if your partner had sex with someone else. It doesn’t matter if they used condoms. You need to get yourself tested for sexually transmitted diseases. You don’t want to have an untreated illness. This is a sad possibility of cheating.

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Get Advice – Sex very well could feel uncomfortable the first few times after someone has cheated on you. Talking to a therapist isn’t out of the question. You may need a little help to get yourself over all of this. There’s nothing wrong with having someone else help guide you through this. Don’t be put off if your partner doesn’t want to go to therapy. Go without them. Relationships can and do end over infidelity. Will yours? That’s a question that only you can answer. For some people it depends on the length and severity of the infidelity. A loss of self control after a night of drinking can be much different than a prolonged affair. Each situation is different and it needs to be addressed accordingly.

We Can Get Through It Together

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Does It Mean The End? – Does infidelity have to ruin a relationship? Must a relationship be over if someone cheats on their partner? The obvious answer is no. The relationship doesn’t have to come to an end. Relationships have weathered far worse and anyone who’s been in one long enough fully understands that.

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Weather The Storm – It doesn’t mean that infidelity doesn’t cause a major strain in the relationship. Every relationship needs to have boundaries. You and your partner need to discuss what exactly cheating is. There are some of you reading this that are in more liberal open relationships. Cheating for you may mean something entirely different than what it would for a conservative couple. These things need to be discussed early on in the relationship. It’s not uncommon these days for couples to take breaks. You’ve probably seen DNA tests on your favorite talk show as the result of those breaks. If you and your partner take a break from each other, you’ve got to make rules. A broken heart will be the result if you don’t. Not only that, but it very well could ruin the relationship beyond repair.

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Be Safe – Always get tested for sexually transmitted diseases if you or your partner has had sex with someone else. STDs are one of the nasty consequences of infidelity. You want to take your health during this time very seriously. Not just your physical health, but your mental health as well. You won’t be able to repair your relationship, or move on, if you’re sick. Take care of yourself and work on building a better tomorrow. This is solid advice, regardless if the relationship survives the infidelity, or not.

Could Swinging Spice Up Your Relationship?

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Sexual Variety – Swingers clubs are popping up all over the place. This means many couples will want to give them a try. Here we’ll give you some easy to follow pointers that will make your swinging club experience is one to remember. It’s not uncommon for the alcohol to be flowing freely at a swingers club. Nothing gets people more loose than booze. You’re going to want to keep the drinking to a minimum. You may end up doing something you regret if you’re totally wasted. Beyond that, your plumbing might work properly if you’re drunk.

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No Glove, No Love – Not being able to get it up kind of defeats the purpose of going to a swingers club. Bring some condoms with you to the club. The couples at the swingers club may seem nice, but you don’t know them. They’re total strangers and you need to treat them as such. By not using condoms you’re putting yourself and your partner at risk. Always wear a condom when having sex with strangers. It lowers the risk of both disease and unwanted pregnancy. Two things every swinger needs to be concerned about. The last tip may be the most important one.

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No Pressure – Allow you or your partner to back out of the whole thing at any time. When a new swingers club comes into town, the whole thing seems so exciting. That excitement may go away quickly when you realize your partner will be having sex with someone else. Don’t be surprised if one or both of you aren’t able to go along with swinging. At least you went to the club and saw what it was all about.

Relationship Boundaries

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Agree On Terms – What is cheating? It’s a question that doesn’t have a singular answer. Cheating has no definition in a relationship until it’s given one. This is the key thing for everyone to understand when it comes to relationships. What you think of as cheating may not be the same as your partner. This is why it’s important to define the term early on in your relationship. Don’t let a situation arise where hurt feelings may occur over not understanding the level of commitment expected from each other. A kiss or even flirting can be seen as cheating.

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Is Playing Ok? – Some couples are okay with the idea of mutual masturbation or even oral sex. While others may totally be comfortable with their partner having sex with someone else. This is why what is cheating needs to be established early on in the relationship. Going behind the back o f your partner is never a good idea. Lies do not make for a solid foundation. Anything other than that will crack at some point and the relationship will be over. What do you think is cheating? Tell your partner and get it out in the open. This is one area that you can’t leave to interpretation.

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Trust Is Key – You have to set boundaries or things will eventually get out of hand. Most relationships can’t and won’t last if there are trust issues. It goes far beyond sex and it determines a person’s character. The limits you place will also help in judging your partners honesty. Never think you fully know someone until you actually do.

Love The One You’re With

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Can You Be True – One thing that always astounds me is when I hear some people telling me I chat with is how they are exclusive to a phone sex partner, or cam sex partner online. Not all people are like this certainly, but some are. Then one of them meets someone else to play with and the one they were playing with feels hurt and cheated on. I think it’s very unrealistic to expect another person you’re having online fun with to remain faithful and not play with others if they are playing with you. Variety is a good thing and should be explored.

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Do You Love Me – One thing about online fun is sometimes one partner gets more attached than the other one. So it can be extra hard if they are to find out they are being cheated on with someone else, and if there’s one thing about online sex chat sites, it’s that they are like living soap operas come to life. People cheating on others, players, ladies men, sluts, villains! The cast of characters on a chat site is very much like the soaps. Long lost characters reappearing, heartbreakers, secrets. Monogamy is difficult enough in real life, maybe the swingers and ones into having an open relationship have the right idea. Enjoy everyone you wish to.

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Monogamy = Monotony – For many people this holds very true and no matter how much they may love their partner, they simply have no plans to be faithful towards them. They might be able to hide it well or be discreet, but they are simply not going to do without the variety they crave. So for online partners, it’s even more easy to play the field since no risk of disease or pregnancy, so you can literally have phone sex or cyber sex with hundreds of people and have no worries. So play the field and enjoy!