Too Much Of A Good Thing – How do you know if you watch too much porn? Many people don’t realize that they’re watching too much. Too much of anything isn’t good for you. Porn and masturbation go together hand in hand. Most people who watch porn masturbate while doing so. We’ve already talked about how masturbation can have a negative impact on your sex life. Porn can have the same negative impact, along with a few other things that most people aren’t going to realize. Watching too much porn can give us too high of expectations of one another. No one can perform like they do in porn videos. This is a truth that should be common sense.
Reality Check – Watch professional athletes play a game and see how they perform. You can’t slam dunk a basketball like they can. Why would you think that you or your partner should have the same oral sex skills as a porn star? Then there’s the bodies that the porn stars have. The guys have huge cocks and most of them spend all day in the gym. The women have big tits and rarely have an extra ounce of fat on them. Chances are you and your partner look nothing like the people in porn videos do. Unrealistic expectations when it comes to both performance and appearance is what watching too much porn will result in. Then no one is happy.
Everything In Moderation – This isn’t to say that you should quit watching porn entirely. Just make sure you’re not jerking off to porn more than you’re having sex. Porn is a lot like restaurant food, a little every now and then is okay. Don’t eat more takeout than food than what your own two hands cook. Don’t watch more porn than you have sex. It’s as simple as that.
The Ultimate Orgasm – Do you want to have great sex? Everyone does and most people have no idea how to achieve it. You don’t need huge tits or a big penis to have a great time in the sack. Flat chested women and guys with small penises are having wonderful sex every day. The difference is, they know something that you don’t. The only way you’ll consistently have great sex is by being in a long term relationship. A one night stand will never produce the kind of sex that fulfills your every need.
Know Your Partner – The reason for that is quite simple really. It takes quite a bit of time to know what you and your partner like. You’re not going to learn this during a conversation over a few drinks at your local bar. Practice makes perfect and it couldn’t be more true when it comes to the bedroom. You can’t pleasure your partner if you don’t know what they like. Sex isn’t like a one size fits all pair of socks. Great sex comes from knowing exactly what your partner likes. The same could be true when it comes to them pleasing you. Neither of you learned what foods or TV shows the other liked over night. It took time for you to develop an understanding of what the other likes. The same is true in the bedroom.
Comfortable Passion – Have you ever looked at a couple that’s been together in a relationship for a long time and envied their happiness? Now you know why they’re so happy. The reason is, both of them know exactly what the other likes in the bedroom. There’s no guessing or learning what needs to be done. This is the true secret to having great sex. Happiness is something you need to work at and so is being sexually satisfied. Any quick fixes that you find along the way will never deliver the promises they make.
Party Time – How do you find someone to have a threesome with? It’s a question that many couples end up asking themselves. Truthfully, finding a guy to have a threesomes with is usually pretty easy. It’s just a matter of asking. Most guys will jump at the opportunity to have a threesome. The harder thing to find is a willing female. Asking a friend to join you in the sack may not have the best results. You risk losing their friendship or things becoming awkward down the line.
Looking For A Third – The internet is a great place to find someone to have a threesome with. Quite a few dating sites have a section for hookups or whatever they call it. Make sure that you spell out exactly what you’re looking for. You should also be very descriptive about what type of person you’re looking for. Clearly state if you’re looking for a man or a woman. You’ll end up getting tons of replies from men. Probably much fewer replies from women. Being extremely descriptive will cut back on the amount of time you spend reading and replying to unwanted messages.
Sensible Searching – Don’t go searching on dating sites for people who you’d like to have a threesome with. Guys and gals more than likely don’t want to be bothered by your threesome request. You have to remember you’re a complete stranger to them. Guys might be flattered, while women will probably freaked out about it. Cutting corners and doing things the easy way will only ensure that you don’t get the threesome you want.
Stop Masturbating? – Want to improve the quality of sex that you have? Give up masturbating. The world isn’t coming to an end. You don’t need to hide beneath your bed. Masturbation is a great tool for those who aren’t getting any sex. This article isn’t for those of you that don’t get laid. Masturbation can ruin your sexual appetite. It can make you not want to have sex with your partner. Ever wonder why your partner isn’t chasing you around the house begging for sex? They’re probably masturbating and it’s taking away their urge to have sex. This has a negative impact on several aspects of a relationship.
Build Up Your Sexual Appetite – All of which will eventually trickle right down into the bedroom. Don’t allow your natural sex drive to be tampered down by masturbating. There’s nothing wrong with being horny. Allowing yourself to be horny will make your partner feel more attractive. Masturbation can dull your senses and make you less interested in your partner. This is the true hazard of playing with yourself. It’s not going blind or developing hairy palms. It’s a lack of sex drive that very well could be translated into a lack of desire. No one wants to share a bed with someone that doesn’t find them desirable. Cut back masturbating to just a few times per month. The fewer times, the better.
Quality, Not Quantity – Work harder at increasing the amount of sex you have. Masturbation is a lot like fast food. Sure, it’s easy and it gets rid of the hunger. However, it’ll leave you wanting more each and every time. This is why you shouldn’t eat cheeseburgers every day. Your body will be left wanting more, as fast food is devoid of nutrients and anything healthy. The same thing on some level could be said about masturbation. The difference is, masturbation on some level is healthy. Just make sure you’re having sex more often than you masturbate.
Chill Out – Many people overlook the devastating impact stress has on their sex lives. It certainly can have an impact on a male’s ability to achieve an erection. It can easily ruin the desire to have sex as well. Don’t let stress overwhelm you to the point that it has a negative impact on your sex life. Stress is a byproduct of life and no one should lose sight of that. Every person will experience stress on some level each day. The key thing is to manage and get rid of the stress in a way that enables you to function in the bedroom.
Relax Naturally – Drugs, alcohol, and poor diet are ways that many people deal with stress. All three of those things will have a negative impact on your sexual health. Learn how to identify things that stress you out. Deal with them before they become a problem. The best way to do so is by managing every aspect of your day to day life. You should never live life without a net. Instead, plan everything well in advance. Doing so will result in less stress. Exercise has an almost drug like effect on reducing stress. Make sure that you’re exercising every day. Set aside some time daily to exercise and you’ll immediately notice the results.
Keep Stress Away – A reduction in stress will have a great impact on the quality of your sex life. Many people make the mistake of thinking their stress is the result of an unfulfilling sex life. It very well could be the other way around. The reason you’re not happy in the sack is because you’re experiencing too much stress. Reduction in stress will increase the level of satisfaction you experience in the bedroom. Always be aware of your partner’s stress levels and help them find ways to reduce it. Doing so will improve the quality and quantity of sex the two of you are enjoying.
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