The Boyfriend Experience
Tell Me You Love Me – People look for different sorts of interactions when they look online for fun partners. Most are just looking for a fun, good and casual time. Many are happy with one time encounters, like horny ships passing in the night. Others are looking for longer term pairings, where if they are horny they can go back to one another again and again, some such pairings can literally last for years. I was a bit shocked when recently my longest term phone partner of 5 years said I’d been in his life longer than any real life girlfriend he’d had.
I Want You – Some partners for phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex can get involved in each others lives to a degree, others are more secretive and without much real life info from their online partners. Worried about privacy or stalkers or any number of things infringing on their offline life. It can be awkward when one starts to feel more deeply than the other one does and in fact they can fall in love with their online partner. I’d heard many times about the “girlfriend experience”, but one said recently some girls were seeking a “boyfriend experience”. They want an online boyfriend to be there for them, tell them they love them, and sometimes seek offline real encounters as well, and sad to say most guys are only seeking online fun, and are not looking to carry things over into real life.
Online Better Than Real – Many times what we see online is the best of someone, the sexy, adorable side of someone and we grow to fall for them and idealize them. We don’t know what they are really like in their day to day life, we only know what they have chosen to reveal to us, and when all we see is the good and sexy part, it’s not that hard to fall for some of them. Sadly, some of us get hurt in such a situation. Some guys can get scared and flee when an online girl they play with gets “clingy”. I’ve heard this many times from guys. Many guys enjoy bringing an element of realism into especially phone sex play and talk about real life meetings, “Oh wouldn’t it be hot…”, yet when you buy into it and agree to go along, boy do some of them run scared. It’s cruel to lead someone on. Many girls and ladies are emotional sorts and can indeed fall for the online Casanova’s out there and get hurt when things don’t progress as we’d like them to.
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