I Swing Both Ways – One of the wonderful things about online fun is you can explores facets of of your sexuality that in real life you might be a bit reluctant to. Many of us define ourselves as gay, straight, virgin, celibate. Sexuality can be very fluid, and not so clear cut as many like to imagine it is. Sometimes just the right time, the right place, the right person and things can unfold we hadn’t planned on or bargained for and seem very natural.
Double Your Pleasure – Many members on Climax Connection do list themselves as bisexual on their profile pages, yet many times in real life they might not be so quick to state that to people that might not be as understanding. We are very glad lesbian and bisexual women, and gay and bisexual men, feel comfortable here to express themselves and indulge in online fun with likeminded others. On an adult community website like this one, you will no doubt be able to find others of like mind that you can indulge your kinks in and find some pleasure and happiness, lasting or fleeting.
Tolerance & Acceptance – It’s unfortunate that people in all countries of the world or all religions didn’t accept people as they are and make people feel shame, doubt and hide who they are. We welcome people with different kinks and encourage them to find others of the same mind to play with and enjoy each other. Everything in this life is not black and white, it is indeed many shades of grey, including if you are a bisexual. Even totally straight people can have sexual fantasies and dreams about ones of the same sex, that’s very normal. So be yourself and indulge your passions.
Show Me That Pussy – Masturbation is a top pleasure for all of us, not a doubt. For many of us it’s the only sex we get if we do not have a partner, or go to an escort, have a fuck buddy, etc. Lots of people are exhibitionists and voyeurs as well, and for some if you are lucky enough to have a sexual partner, a top pleasure for them is seeing their partner masturbate in front of them.
Let Me Watch – What better way to show your partner how you like to be touched? It really isn’t just arousing, it’s downright educational. They will get aroused without a doubt, but to see how you like to be touched, teased, caressed, stroked, the speed, everything, they will better be able to duplicate that themselves. I will never forget seeing on some sex education show this guy show on an artificial vagina how he’d touch a woman. I literally burst out laughing and thought what woman would want to be touched THAT way? I’d slap his hand away! He was tapping away on the silicone clit like he was sending out Morse code, I couldn’t believe my eyes. It never ceases to amaze me some women will fake an orgasm with a man, why, all you are doing is reinforcing their ineffective sexual techniques. Tell them how to do it so they get it right. Don’t worry about their ego, unless their ego is more important to you than your orgasm, it’s ridiculous.
Touch Me Like This – Demonstrating the technique to your partner is the absolute best way to show them how you cum the easiest. All women are different and going to like something different. Just because your ex girlfriend loved it this way, doesn’t mean your current one will. Some like indirect touch, others firm and very direct, so it’s not a one size fits all situation. Your sexual partners could like very different things and if you want to click, you’d best get over your shyness and show them how you like it. Beating around the bush does no one any favors in the bedroom. Be direct and ask for what you want, your partner can’t read your mind.
Searching For Cyber Sex – Lots of people are on the cyber sex bandwagon these days. Sexy type chat as both parties, usually both anyway, masturbate. For hearing impaired people, this would be an excellent choice to spice up your masturbation routine. Yes, they’d be able to watch porn, but that’s not interactive the way it is if you add another person to the mix, and phone sex wouldn’t work for ones that were deaf obviously. Many blind people are into erotic audios, I’d think cyber sex would be fairly big among the deaf crowd.
Silent & Private – Some people don’t get into phone sex because they worry about privacy issues, roommates or family possibly hearing them talking to someone, or the naughty things they might be saying, but cyber sex is silent except for the keys typing away or your moans of ecstasy as you masturbate. Looking for good cyber partners can be a challenge for ones that are into it, they often gravitate towards chat rooms where they might find like minded others also looking to masturbate this way and have some hot chat between them.
Steamy, Erotic Words – Not many men are into romance novels like women, but lots of guys do enjoy erotica, especially the back and forth kind like good cyber sex can bring. A worry for many guys though, is who are they really cybering with, is it another guy? If you don’t hear their voice, you really have no idea. Most don’t want to think of the possibility, but I guess you just have to lose yourself into the fantasy and not really worry about it. Enjoy the time removed away from reality and the hot words and the pictures those words paint and try not to focus on anything more. Do you really want to know? If you truly did, you’d be into cam or phone. It’s fantasy, relax. Enjoy your masturbation!
Socialize Online – Lots of people just don’t have friends in their “real lives.” They might be shy, misanthropes, all kinds of reasons, but online they find it a lot easier to get along with others and make friends. Sure your “online friends” might not be at your hospital bed side if something is wrong, they may not even ever find out your last name, but they can make life a lot more bearable for some of us. Especially those of us with no sexual outlets or partners otherwise.
Masturbation Partners – Adult virgins often flock to adult social networks, since they simply aren’t getting any action in real life and online connections are easier to find. They might not be able to get lucky and find someone to go home with at their friends party, but they can go in an adult chatroom and find a cyber sex partner. It’s safe, it’s harmless, it’s free and it might be the only intimacy they are getting, so it might mean a lot to them.
Adult Social Network – An adult social networking site has all sorts of things available to you to hook up with people of similar mindsets that wouldn’t always be easy to find in the real world. The ease of having a profile page with all your sexual likes and dislikes right there for anyone to read about before they even contact you. Imagine the time that would save in the real world if people knew right away what your kinks were and were not. Profile pages, forums, chat rooms, inbox messages, all easy ways to find people that you might have a lot of fun masturbating with.
Tell Me A Story – Erotic fiction is one of the oldest masturbation enhancement tools going. Television has been around less than 100 years, movies just a bit longer, photographs less than 200 years. Before porn as most people know it, you had a couple of options to make your “alone time” a bit more stimulating, erotic art, which was not in high circulation, or erotica. Also not in terribly high circulation, but if you had a talent for writing, something you could write down yourself and then revisit later, when you felt like being naughty, you had some masturbation material.
Erotic Fiction – Painting pictures with your words is not a talent that everyone has. Many people are simply not gifted as writers to put their thoughts on paper and make them sound appealing and interesting. Good erotic fiction writers can make the pages smolder of the dirty books. They can get your loins warm and wet, your cock hard and throbbing, all with words, which set off a mini movie in our minds of the action we are reading about. Masturbation before widely available porn was a trial for many! Most of human history obviously. Today’s generation of 25 year olds and less take the internet for granted, porn, pics, erotic literature is just a few clicks away.
Sex Stories – Many fantasies and stories, countless millions of them, are now available on any topic, any fetish, no matter how naughty you desire. Some people are too shy to record their fantasies, for fear of being judged. Most fantasies never will come to be a reality, they are the dark corners of our mind revealed, and many times it can be easier to write things down for some than to express them verbally. Lots of fantasies we have are best left in the realm of just that, our mind. Really making most of them happen wouldn’t or couldn’t possibly live up to the expectation we have made it to be. And for ones that have sexual fantasies that would be illegal if we made them a reality, those likely are most certainly best left in the corners of our mind or a story we write about them.
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