Hey, Look At Me!

Looking Good – Guys do it and so do gals. The only people who don’t are those who are blind. We’re talking about looking at the opposite sex. You look and so does your partner. It’s a fact of life that everyone has to deal with. There are even plus sides to looking at other people. The truth is, everyone does it. Denying it is futile and it won’t get you very far. Humans are social creatures and looking at other people is natural.

Take A Picture It’ll Last Longer – This is mainly a problem that guys have. Especially those of you that haven’t learned the art of ogling. You need to look without having an expression of a hungry wolf. It’ll do more than make your significant other less jealous. You’ll also make the person you’re looking at feel less uncomfortable. After all, not everyone likes being looked at like they’re a piece of freshly fried chicken. You know how you look at a piece of crispy chicken before eating it at suppertime. That’s the say way you look at someone that’s appealing. Tone it down and you’ll seem less creepy. All while not letting your partner know about your viewing pleasure.

The Green Eyed Monster – Jealousy is one of the worst things in a relationship. It’s something that both parties have to deal with. That doesn’t mean you can’t lessen the impact that it has. If you’re the jealous type, you may want to buy some blinders. They work for horses and it’s worth giving a shot. In all seriousness, don’t get the ogling get to you. Instead, ask your partner what they like about the other person. Try to find ways to make yourself appealing in the same way. You’d be surprised by the little things that get your partner’s attention. Knowing what they are will allow you to improve yourself. This will intern give you the chance to work on your appearance. Self improvement is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship and one can’t grow without it.

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