Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.
Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.
Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!
National Masturbation Month – I’m sure most of us masturbate every single month, many every singe day, but May is National Masturbation Month. It was started in 1995 by a sex toy store in San Francisco to celebrate masturbation because at the time the US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was let go because she felt kids in school should be taught masturbation was an important part of sexuality as well. Apparently it was just too radical an idea.
Times Are Changing – Luckily some governments are moving forward, and for the last few years the UK and another European country actually have active campaigns to encourage the nations youth to masturbate to cut down on teen pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases and enhance pleasure for ones without partners. Many don’t know in the late 1800’s doctors preached so on the evils of self abuse, they came up with “libido deadening foods” like Corn Flakes and Graham crackers to supposedly take away the sex drive and lessen the chances ones would masturbate. Hard to believe, but 100% true.
No Shame In Self Love – Now no one’s suggesting you whip it out on a mall bench and have at it just because it’s an ok thing to do, it has its time and place. Masturbation is a normal activity most of us engage in and enjoy. It’s free, it’s safe, no risk of disease, is pleasurable and a stress reliever. When you find someone on a site like this to join you and have cyber sex, cam sex or phone sex with it kicks it up to a whole new level, once you try it with someone, alone no longer cuts it. So enjoy some self love today!
Mirror Mirror On The Wall – Sexually stimulating ourselves is normal, watching ourselves in a mirror as we do so can be an arousing addition to our masturbation mix. Full length mirrors allow us a full body view standing up, and hand held mirrors for girls allow us to get a real up close and personal look at our own bodies from a visual vantage point we otherwise could not have. People should be encouraging their young people to explore themselves in this manner, but our hush hush societal mentality on sexuality and masturbation in particular makes this not very likely to happen.
Enjoy Yourself Visually – You can’t expect someone else to please you sexually until you yourself know what feels good to you. Watching as the juices flow out of yourself with a magnifying mirror can be very exciting, watching your fingertips lightly caress your stiffened clit and watch your pussy contract with your orgasm and watch it pulse. Many couples enjoy having sex in front of mirrors, some really into it have mirrors placed above their beds. Guys into mirror masturbation often will cum right on the mirror and watch as it erupts against the glass and trickles down.
A Different Perspective – Your very own porn for one. Watching as you make yourself cum. It’s very sexy, and you can quickly understand why guys like watching a lady masturbate so much, it’s sensual and arousing and they love the look of a woman pleasing herself in front of them. So if you haven’t masturbated in front of a mirror in a while, maybe get one out and reacquaint yourself with the visual poetry that is yourself masturbating. I have a feeling you just might enjoy it.
Colder Than A Witch’s Tit – With much of North America in a deep freeze of unprecedented proportions, there’s one sure thing we can do to warm up, and that’s have sex or masturbate! Cam sex, cyber sex and phone sex are all guaranteed to raise your temperature and make you forget the blizzard like conditions that are persisting outside with the Polar Vortex we have all been experiencing. It might be colder outside than we can tolerate, but we will keep ourselves toasty warm inside as we crank up the heat and rub our naughty bits.
Freezing Your Nuts Off – Masturbation is good any time of year, but can be a bit uncomfortable during the sticky months of summer, even with air conditioning. Cuddling with your honey, if you’re lucky enough to have one, will make you feel all warm and fuzzy for sure, as well as all sexy! Get some circulation back in those balls of yours by rubbing them as you talk to your online fun partner, or maybe even show her on cam. Trust me, the cold weather outside will be the last thing on your mind once you start stroking your cock for her and showing her what you’ve got.
Winter Warm Up – One thing many men enjoy about the ladies in cold weather is of course their visibly hardened nipples. Cold does have some advantages after all! Masturbation alone is good for sure, but with a partner you can find online, it’s even more arousing to share that orgasm with someone that you find equally arousing and sexy. No need for winter to get you down, hit the chat rooms or inbox people, or post in the forums to find some online fun partners today!
Indulge Yourself – Most people masturbate. It’s honestly hard to consider there are some people that do not, but like everything, there are exceptions to every rule, and jerking off and rubbing our pussies is not something 100% of people do. Personally, I cannot fathom living a life without masturbation. Many start very young and it’s just a lifelong behavior. Some do not seem to come to it until they have a lover, some never. Some people it’s a gross thing to imagine them rubbing one out and even grosser thought to picture them having sex!
Feels So Good – It is a private behavior for the most part, something you wouldn’t want to see people on the benches in the mall doing, yet there’s still an embarrassment factor to this most human of actions. Some feel they are less of a person since they should have a partner and they shouldn’t have to resort “to that”. It’s a failure of sorts for ones that think that way. Many have masturbation as their only sexual outlet. They are adult virgins, and for whatever reason, life circumstances, conviction to their religious beliefs, nature has been cruel to them looks wise, though they could always hire an escort if that’s the case.
Stroke Yourself, It’s Good For You – It amazes me some actually feel guilty for masturbating. You don’t feel guilty if you get thirsty or tired, do you? No, they are physical things that happen to you, the same as getting horny, yet some feel they should have total control over those kinds of feelings. Masturbation is good for you, it is a form of exercise, and I can’t think of a way alone to more enjoy getting exhausted and lose your breath! It releases feel good hormones and actually lowers the cancer risk in men. 21 orgasms a month are recommended for optimal prostate health, keep those pipes clean, boys!
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