Let’s Get Naked – Webcam sex is an interest to many people, it’s as close to actual sex as you can get online. The two of you both masturbating together and for each other and talking to each other, you can’t get much closer than that to the real thing. Many men are born exhibitionists it seems and LOVE to show off and masturbate for the ladies, and likely for other guys they aren’t aware are actually guys.
Watch Me Masturbate – Ones that have been blessed by nature to have a larger than average cock seem to feel it’s their duty to show this to as many people as possible, they are proud of their “gift” and flashing online even to ones that have not asked to see it nor want to see it is one of their greatest goals. Right here in our own climaxconnection chat rooms, guys all the time “cam bomb” people and you’ve got unasked for dick in face. They think, “How you could you NOT want to see my magnificent penis I have been given? How could you NOT want to see me masturbate for you?” I take great fun in outing such “cam bombers”. I’m all for ones having as much cam sex as they’d like, but at least ask before you turn on your cam and penis to unsuspecting people!
Mutual Masturbation – When two people decide to masturbate together or even just one watch the other, that’s wonderful. Our chat rooms here have free built in audio and video chat for ones that might be a bit uncomfortable, or impatient, to give out their Yahoo or Skype ID’s to another person. Guys are very visual and adore watching a lady pleasure herself for them on cam. Unlike many sites, we do not tolerate paid cam girls here, we are not on the take, do not take kickbacks to allow them to flourish and never will. They ruin sites like this and it simply will not be allowed. They are banned on first report. Cam girls have their place online and deserve to make a living, but let the clients go find them on their paid sites, not come here and fish for them. Here is for free, mutual fun only.
Don’t Be A Jerk – I wrote the following to a member who had written me and asked what he could do to cut down on his experiences with women online that were cybering or camming with him and then going offline as soon as they came, leaving him in the lurch. I decided my reply was sensible enough to be posted for others to see and hopefully learn something from. Even if you are not a religious sort, the do unto others as you would have them do onto you bit is sound advice that every single person should be practicing.
Assholes Online – Many online are assholes, this will come as no revelation, I am sure. Keyboard warriors who are bold due to their anonymity alone. One way to avoid getting dropped during a cam, phone or cyber session, is not to engage in one until you know the person better, but I know most people come on when they are horny and want something right then. This has never been my personal game plan, it’s like going shopping when you are starving, you’ll grab the nearest morsel you can get.
Don’t Just Be Horny, Be Polite – I realize my personal “audition process” is not what most people do, but it cuts down on bad experiences when you chat with someone a few times before playing, there’s more of an investment of time, so they are not as apt to run off as soon as they cum. Even with this method though, it has happened to me. I have been hung up on by a handful of guys after they came, and I was livid and immediately deleted and blocked them. One I even had chatted with for 6 weeks before playing with him and he did this to me the first and only time we played. I have never done this to one person I have phoned with, even when I knew I’d made a bad choice and would never be playing with them again, I got through it and did it and finished the call.
Cum & Go – I have heard countless guys tell me girls they were phoning, camming, or cybering with some girl who immediately left when they came. There are some rude, inconsiderate individuals out there. Obviously they wouldn’t do that to someone they were looking for a long term online playing relationship with. But a “hit and run encounter” with someone they have no intention of playing with again, they just don’t care. Other sites will be the same, CC doesn’t have the market cornered on thoughtless jerks and bitches, all sites will have the same sorts. Selfish idiots looking to get off and only their own orgasm to care about. Show others some respect and let them finish, even if you know you will not be playing with them again.
You Get What You Give – Karma is a reality, what goes around does indeed come around. Show others the same courtesy and respect you yourself would wish to be shown. Would you like to be hung up on? Your screen go black as they have turned off their cam? See them log out in chat when they say they have cum? I doubt you would. Treat others decently and maybe you will have someone to play with again in the future, and not some one time hit and run encounter that you’d be embarrassed to be confronted about.
Can I Watch? – It goes without saying most men are visually oriented. Many love web cam sex. They love to not only show off but watch as well. Sadly, it’s much easier to find girls willing to cam online only for pay, and cam girls are not welcome at Climax Connection. We do however welcome normal girls here that love to show off. Our free video and audio chat we offer here will be of great interest to many that don’t wish to share their Skype or Yahoo ID’s.
Can I Trust You? – You can cam safely without any worries of blackmail or sharing personal details if you are not so inclined or comfortable to do so. You can open your cam to the entire chat room so anyone can watch you, or just privately in the one on one chat and show only certain individuals you choose to share your private moments with. There’s nothing quite like your own private porn show that webcam sex can provide. Most guys have such a streak of the exhibitionist in them, ones like to show off as much as watch I think in many cases.
Let Me Masturbate For You – Make no mistake though, guys want to see the pussy, they want to see fingers and toys going into those juicy pussies at the same time they stroke their cocks and cum at the same time. Free video chat is something we are pleased to offer users here at Climax Connection, just one of many new features, and with more coming, that we want to entice users with so they know this is the premiere adult community website that offers more to its members.
Free Web Cam Sex – Many come to an adult chat site looking for a partner for various activities like phone sex, cyber sex or web cam sex. All of them can certainly spice up your masturbation and take them to the next level of excitement. Alone just doesn’t cut it anymore for many of us once we discover how much better it is sharing it with another person. Most men are very visual and the thought of watching someone else masturbate is very arousing to most.
Can I Watch – Men do also seem to for the most part have strong tendencies to show off and want to have girls watch them. As visual as they are they seem to like to show themselves off on web cam just as much. Web cam sex is like porn they are themselves a part of. Not all guys are looking for a paid service when it comes to watching, cam girls have their place, but it is still a one sided experience for the benefit of the paying participant, it’s not a mutual exchange in the truest sense, the woman is participating because they are getting paid, not because they are there to have fun as well. Some guys are happy with their own personal peep show just for them, but others want the other partner to be really do it for fun as well.
Find Online Masturbation Partners – Adult chat rooms are an excellent place to find like minded others looking for the same kinds of naughty fun as you are. Inboxing people on their profile pages as well, since some that come to adult community website are not really into chat rooms, yet they enjoy looking at others profile pages and sending them a private message instead. Forum invite threads are also a great place to find partners looking for the same kinds of fun you are, they are like the bulletin board of the website. So if free web cam sex is what you are looking for, by all means try the chat rooms, sending private messages to ones that have that listed as an interest, or look in the forum invite threads, hopefully it won’t take you long to find someone. And by all means, do report anyone that is advertising their services as a cam girl, giving links to their site, etc., that is not allowed here and they will be banned.
This is a guest blog submission by a ClimaxConnection member. This submission was written by member, YourMister_Dark.
Erotic Talk – Whether you’re a newbie or a veteran, you can always learn to be better at chatting. From the old rough days of BBSes right up to the most modern cam-, Skype, or cyber chatting, the lessons of good communication have never been more important and one of the key notes to hit is empathy. Not sympathy, but empathy: the ability to “feel’ as others feel, instinctively.
Hot Talking – Empathy allows you to “tune in” on people’s feelings, moods, and even unspoken attitudes. We all know about communication disasters when two chatters lock horns (not in a good way) because their moods don’t mesh or compliment each other in the right way. And while women seem to have a stronger sense of empathy, guys need to tune in as well.
Hot Chat – If you think — as many guys sadly do — that you can just jump right in, metaphorically or on cam wave your magic wang and get lucky, think again. Good erotic communication is not like a porn clip or that rampant sex scene in your head. First off, most women chatters of any persuasion want to know who they’re fucking, even if you start off as a “stranger”. They’re opening themselves up on a very intimate level, after all, and whether they want a hard, fast quickie or a long, sensual, slow scene, they very rarely respond to crude and rude pickup lines. “I have a big cock” or “I want to fuck you so hard” or even “Wanna fuck” might work after they’ve got to know you, but hardly ever if it’s the first thing you type to them. Ladies like to be seduced. Well, truth be told, so do some men, but guys seldom take the time for that to happen. And, fellows, remember, if all you want is that quick satisfaction then the pleasure of it is going to fade away just as quick. The “three minute wonder” is rapidly forgettable, even if it succeeds.
Seduce Me With Your Words – Sensual chat is something else altogether. It’s friendly, fun, provocative, smart, and sexy without being too crude. It’s never rude, not confrontational, never insulting. It can be clever, should be fresh and even creative. Use your mind, your imagination, be direct and honest, but seductive and fun.
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