Do You Need Professional Help? – You and your partner have been thinking about going to a sex therapist. Yes, it’s actually gotten that bad. You’re not alone and there are many couples that need therapy. Here were going to dispel a few myths about sex therapy and tell you what to expect. Seeing a therapist about your sexual problems is not as far fetched as some may believe. Most people have no idea what a sex therapist is. Quitea few of you are going to be shocked to find out what exactly this therapy entails.
It’s About Talking – The first thing that needs to be cleared up is, you will not be having sex in front of the therapist. It should also be noted that the therapist won’t be joining you for a threesome. For whatever reason, quite a few guys think that they’ll have sex in front of the therapist and they may actually join in on the fun. That’s not how sex therapy works and you should run out of the room if a therapist suggests anything of that nature. So, what exactly should you expect while visiting a sex therapist? You should expect to talk about your sexual problems. Yes, you’re going to have to talk about your feelings. That’s what this all boils down to. You’re not getting any and you’ll have to talk about your feelings to get some. How does that sound to you? If it sounds good, then you’ve probably been masturbating quite a bit lately. If that’s the case, sex therapy is without a doubt a good idea for you. Unless you feel like pleasuring yourself for a much longer time.
Talking To Heal – The general public is aware of talk therapy and have at least some grasp of its value. A sex therapist offers a very similar service. The difference is, everything you talk about will be of a sexual nature. Too many times people discount the value therapy in any form has to offer. If you value your relationship, you shouldn’t immediately say no to the idea of going to a sex therapist. A visit or two may help you in ways that is difficult to understand now. Keep in mind that no one can force you to go to future visits. If you feel uncomfortable, or that the sessions are not providing ample improvements in your sex life, then simply stop going. Otherwise, continue to work on improving your relationship and hopefully you’ll benefit with some action in the sack.
Looking To Spice Up Your Masturbation? – Porn is great, but at some point it starts to feel monotonous because you lack control. You know what is better than porn? Live cam girls performing at your instructions. There are multiple such websites all over the internet featuring different cam girls. You can browse through any of these websites and pick out from various categories of porn and choose whoever you like.
Cam Girls Are An Option – They are there at the other end of the chat reading all your instructions and ready to satisfy you. It gives you a sense of control and makes it different and kind of interesting. Porn is basically glorified. You will see these women in all sorts of places. There are different sets. You can see a regular housewife wearing extremely revealing clothes, and softly dusting her house while she gets tired and takes a break and you pick up from there and ask her to do things to herself. That is how it works. The situations are already set up for you.
They’re There To Entertain You – With cam, here there are thousands of choices of multiple girls, and you can ask them to do anything you want, yes anything! And they will not refuse to do so, well unless the person at the other end is a psychopath and your demands are life-threatening or what they consider degrading. In all other cases, they will do pretty much anything as they get paid highly for what they do. So the next time you don’t feel like watching porn, you have a better alternative. It is a great way to kill time while you are at a boring business tour with nothing to do outside your hotel room.
Can You Go Multiple Rounds? – Unlike most men, though some are indeed multiple cummers like women, many women come at once and again and again, nonstop. But hat will only happen when you satisfy her needs of achieving a multiple orgasms. It is not that hard, you just have to target her whole G-spot area, specifically not forgetting the clitoris. The best way to do it is going down good on her after you have sex. Her vagina is all opened up and wet and also the most vulnerable. That is the time that you can find out what her real moans sound like. Use your tongue, go deep and twist it, maybe bite her a little. They are really sensitive after you have just climaxed sex.
Stimulate The Clit For Another Round – Make sure the sex was good and harder towards the end. You can also use sex toys if you want. A rabbit vibrator will do the trick for you. It is known to satisfy women every which way and that is why it is their absolute favorite. It is bunny shaped at the top and gently stimulates the clitoris while the dildo goes into the vagina. There are also some rabbit vibrators available that you can wear during sex. Nothing is going to drive her straight to an extraordinary orgasm sooner. Apart from the g-spot find her erogenous zones and gently run fingers all over her body. Be extremely gentle at the start, teasing her and then proceed to do it harder. It is really not that difficult, you just have to play the right moves one by one.
Catch Your Breath – Most people need to relax for a few moments and catch their breath between rounds, even if only for a few moments. it gives you a chance to calm down. The genitals can be overly sensitive right after an orgasm, so they need to have a few moments to be ready to go again for another round of pleasure.
Smooth Ride – It is just as important to know about lubricants as it is about sex toys. You should never use one without applying some lube because otherwise it can be rough for you and cause irritation later. Now there is not just one kind of lubricant, there are several categories and you have to really check which one will suit you the best. There are water-based lubricants and organic lubricants that are the safest. Whenever you are operating any kind of gadget you do check for its dos and don’ts and whether the product is completely safe or not. You should be just as cautious about lubricants as well.
Types Of Lubes – Each lube has its own advantage. Starting with Silicone, it is extremely slippery, therefore it is best to use with your dildos so you dont have to keep applying lube on it every now and then and killing all your pleasure. But you must check if you are allergic to it at all. Both oil and silicone based lubricants last for long durations and give you the relaxation you need. If however these strong lubes do not suit your skin, you can always go for organic and water-based lubricants, they are completely harmless. So, practice safe sex even if it is with your sex toys.
Adding To Your Natural Lube – Not all women produce enough lubrication, and men may not drip enough precum to make their masturbation sessions as pleasurable feeling as they can be, so using a lube will add to your own, augmenting it and making it feel even better. Lubes can be messy though, and many will not remove entirely until your next shower, so you may have a sticky coating for the next many hours until you shower again, but it can make a good sex or masturbation session into a great one by really making it feel a lot better, so lubes really do increase your pleasure.