Tag: communication

This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.

Listen – Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. Don’’t expect your sex life to be great if you don’’t talk to your partner. It’’s an odd thing to think about. That is, until you actually think about it. Many couples don’’t talk to each other. Most people these days live busy lives and they don’’t have time to talk about the smallest things. It’’s not too surprising that talk about sex would get lost in the mix. If you’’re not talking about the important things, it’’s safe to say sex isn’’t being discussed either.

Regular Communication – Couples must constantly work on improving their communication skills if they expect to have a great sex life. There are plenty of uncomfortable subjects that can arise during some excitement in the bedroom. If you can’’t talk about the boss being an asshole at work, then the conversation of farts during oral sex probably won’’t happen either. It sounds funny until you’’ve had your face next to what smells like a fresh pile of shit. Flatulence is a part of life, but maybe you should discuss your chili with beans lunch choice before oral sex. See, communication really is important.

Absorb What You’re Told – All joking aside, you’’ve got to feel free talking about what you like and what you don’’t. That’s not going to happen when the lines of communication are broken. Improving your sex life doesn’’t start with buying toys or lingerie. It starts by two people talking and listening to each other. If you want a good relationship and a great sex life, it will always begin with communication. If you’’re unsatisfied in the bedroom start by talking about something else. You’’d be surprised by what a little communication can do.