What’s Love Got To Do With It? – Love and sex are two very different things. It can be easily mashed up into something that doesn’t reflect reality. The difference tends to go along the lines of how men and women think. A man can easily have sex with a woman and have no feelings of love towards her at all. For men, sex is much like food. You probably don’t feel all warm and fuzzy for a cheeseburger you’re about to eat. The same could be said in many sexual situations that men find themselves in.
Let’s Keep It Casual – Sex for a man is more about availability than anything else. A woman has sex with a man for emotional reasons. Most often than not, it’s all about love. The woman feels an emotional connection to the man and has sex with him. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some women who can freely have sex without any feeling of attachment. This isn’t the norm and women who are honest with themselves understand this.
Why Do You Want Me ? – The differences in male and female sexuality is merely about how we perceive the world around us. Why is this important? We live in a society were we’re constantly trying to read in between the lines. Why does this guy want to fuck me? Why did she suck my cock last night? Look deeper into the reasoning behind the person’s actions. By doing so you’ll understand what their intent is. Maybe the chick that blew you last night was just drunk and horny. The guy that keeps chasing you around the office really may be in love with you. Don’t ever allow yourself to read into something that may not exist. Your guy friend may just want some pussy and he doesn’t really care about your love of artisan cheese in the slightest. Understand the motivation of people in your sex life will help you to determine what type of relationship is right.
Don’t Be A Slob – Maintaining your appearance is an important thing. Most guys think this only applies to women. That simply couldn’t be further from the truth. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t give you the right to look like a slob. That means you’re going to have to ditch our pizza stained white T-shirt. Hold your breath and count to five in an attempt to calm down. It goes even further than that. You’ve also got to care about how you look. You’re not doing this because you care about what others think of you. You care about what your partner thinks of you. That’s the key to understanding why you need to care about your appearance.
Take Care Of Yourself – This means you don’t eat too much. Get some exercise. Buy nice clothes and take care of them. Do you get the drift? This isn’t rocket science. All you’re doing is looking good for the person you love. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. You must be sexually attracted to the other person to make it work. The sexual attraction two people experience is the spark that creates excitement in a relationship. It’s not just about sex. It’s about enjoying the total experience you have with your partner. Sexual attraction is both thrilling and exciting. Every person should want their partner to experience this blissful connection that allows them to unleash their animal like desires. Sexual attraction is important in every relationship. It’s not uncommon for people to let themselves go at some point during a relationship.
Shape Up, Or I’ll Be Shipping Out – A kind reminder is what it takes to let the person know that they’re appearance isn’t up to par. It’s not being sexist or shallow to tell your partner that they’ve let themselves go. It very well could be a sign that there are other problems as well. Nipping something like this in the bud will go a long ways in ensuring that you maintain a level of sexual attraction that is needed for a healthy relationship to survive and thrive.
A Kiss Is Just A Kiss – What is a kiss? It’s something that you should think about the next time you enjoy one. Kissing can be the most sexual experience ever. It can also be a quick reminder of love. The value of a kiss or it’s importance should never be underestimated. Every person reading this should kiss more often. It’s something that you should do every single day of your life. Why aren’t you? That’s the real question anyone in a relationship should ask themselves. A couple that kisses is a couple that loves each other.
Kiss Me Quick – Kissing should be part of any foreplay. With that said, it should be a part of your daily routine. Increase the bond you have with your partner by kissing them more often. Kiss them in the morning and before you go to bed at night. Kiss each other throughout the day and you’ll begin to notice what it does to your bond. The strength of your relationship can be determined by the bond you and your partner has. There’s no amount of money or sex that will increase this bond in a way that is lasting. Kissing however, it goes where those two things can’t. The relationship you have with your partner will go a long ways in improving the sex life you have.
I Love You – Most people make the mistake of detaching sex from every other aspect of their life. Don’t be one of those people. Always work to improve your relationship by strengthening the bond you and your partner share. Doing so may just get you in the sack more often. The most important thing is, you’ll actually end up enjoying the person you’re with more. With your level of enjoyment going up, so does the level of satisfaction in the sack. The go together hand in hand and every happy couple knows it.
How Did This Happen? – What do you if you find yourself in a sexless relationship? No one ever goes into a relationship hoping there is no sex involved. Here we’re going to talk about what you do if you find yourself in such a situation. It’s not uncommon and you very well may find yourself in a situation like this. Try to identify why you’re not having sex. Did your spouse just give birth or go through a traumatic event? If so, they may simply not be in the mood to have sex.
The Long Road Back – It’s going to be a matter of time before things get back to normal. A traumatic event may also include infidelity. It can be difficult for your partner get the cheating out of their mind. It’s one of the many prices a person ends up paying for being unfaithful. Your partner may be having health problems they haven’t talked about. Men are notorious for keeping health concerns close to the vest. If your man doesn’t want to have sex, he might be having problems getting it up. The reason why you’re not having fun in the sack may be cured by a simple visit to the doctor.
Do You Feel Ok? – Keep an eye on your partner’s health and it may answer the question as to why you’re not having sex. Your relationship may be in need of some work. Usually there are other problems in a relationship when sex stops happening. These problems can ruin a relationship and lead to a divorce or breakup. If you value the relationship you’re in, then you’ve got to do something about this. You’ll want to talk to a marriage councilor and work out your problems. Many people think this is something bad and should be avoided. The worst thing is living in a sexless relationship where other problems also exist. The sex life of a couple is like the canary in a coal mine. The canary will be whistling and enjoying life as long as everything is good. The second things turn bad, then it’s down hill from here.
Can This Be Fixed? – Identify the reason why you’re not having sex and immediately do something about it. If there’s been a traumatic event, then wait it out. Things will more than likely improve as time goes on. If it’s something other than trauma, nip it in the bud and fix your problem. Your relationship is far too valuable to sit around and do nothing.
Sexual Variety – Swingers clubs are popping up all over the place. This means many couples will want to give them a try. Here we’ll give you some easy to follow pointers that will make your swinging club experience is one to remember. It’s not uncommon for the alcohol to be flowing freely at a swingers club. Nothing gets people more loose than booze. You’re going to want to keep the drinking to a minimum. You may end up doing something you regret if you’re totally wasted. Beyond that, your plumbing might work properly if you’re drunk.
No Glove, No Love – Not being able to get it up kind of defeats the purpose of going to a swingers club. Bring some condoms with you to the club. The couples at the swingers club may seem nice, but you don’t know them. They’re total strangers and you need to treat them as such. By not using condoms you’re putting yourself and your partner at risk. Always wear a condom when having sex with strangers. It lowers the risk of both disease and unwanted pregnancy. Two things every swinger needs to be concerned about. The last tip may be the most important one.
No Pressure – Allow you or your partner to back out of the whole thing at any time. When a new swingers club comes into town, the whole thing seems so exciting. That excitement may go away quickly when you realize your partner will be having sex with someone else. Don’t be surprised if one or both of you aren’t able to go along with swinging. At least you went to the club and saw what it was all about.
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