This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Not Tonight – Handling rejection in the bedroom can be a difficult thing. Men often take it personally when a woman tells them they dont want to try something new. Neither party should take it personally when the other doesnt want to have a new experience. The other person may very well be nervous about the idea. Maybe they really do want to try anal sex. But, theyre just a little too freaked out about it to actually do it.
Please, Can We Do It? – You first need to understand why your partner said no. Its possible their “no” wasnt exactly what it sounded like it. It very well could be that they either arent ready or they arent in the mood right now. What do you do if your partner flat out says no? The first thing you dont do is freak out. You should figure out why theyre saying no to begin with. If it really is no and they have no interest, drop it. Dont beg or put on some kind of show. Just deal with the fact that they dont want to try something. You can hope that some day maybe theyll change their mind. If they dont, then move on.
No Means No – Dont be one of these people that keep begging and being an asshole. Take no for what it means and find something that theyll be up for. Boundaries are important in the bedroom. Its also important that your partner know that you respect their boundaries. Without this respect a relationship cant survive and thrive.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Swinging Via Webcams – Have you ever thought about using webcams as a means to experience swinging? If you haven’t, then you definitely should. It’ll give you the opportunity to spice up your sex life in a way both of you can enjoy. Swinging can be difficult because you or your partner may have different feelings about it. Your partner may not like the idea of sharing you that much.
Virtual Swinging – That’s never an issue when it comes to swinging on cam. You’re not actually having sex with another person. All you’re doing is watching someone else have sex while you do. Think of it as watching live porn while you have sex. You can turn your cam on also and they can watch. It’ll be a thrilling experience for both couples. The bedroom should be a place filled with excitement. Always seek new and interesting ways to make it so.
Watch Us Fuck – You may even consider buying a webcam that’s operated by remote control. This way you can zoom in on the good parts while you’re having sex. The best part is, none of this has to be expensive. In fact, you can do it for free if you have a laptop or smartphone. Fancy webcams aren’t necessary. Though, you may want to invest in some quality equipment at some point down the line. It’ll ensure that the other people watching will have the best time possible. That’s the easiest way to get them to come back for more. That will add a whole new level of spice to your streaming bedroom fun if they do.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Earn Your Red Wings – Having period sex can be quite difficult the first few times. The truth is, it shouldn’t. What do you do if your woman is on her period? You’re not going to go out and cheat on her. Jerking off sometimes just doesn’t cut it. You’re going to have to get some ketchup on your hotdog. There’s no other way around it. Period sex shouldn’t freak anyone out and you better get used to it. It doesn’t matter if you’re a guy reading this or a woman. Periods are a part of life, and so is being horny.
Get Out The Towels – Sex can be messy and that’s just another reason why you’re not going to freak out about period sex. Periods don’t last forever and it’s something to keep in mind. Always prepare for period sex before it happens. You’re going to want to keep in mind that it can be messy. This is why you should keep a towel or something handy to clean up any mess that might be made. Sex can actually lessen the hormonal effects that a woman experiences during her period. This is why often times a woman will actually want to have during this time of the month, while quite a few guys will actually be turned away from it.
Riding The Crimson Tide – Don’t allow yourself to fall into this trap. There’s nothing wrong with period sex and you’re going to enjoy it. This is especially true if you’re woman is horny and she wants to have sex. There’s nothing better than sex when you’re horny and pleasing her during this time will really get your juices flowing.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Are You Gay? – Your guy wants you to fuck him in the ass with a strap on dildo. What exactly does that mean? Simply put, it means he wants you to fuck him in the ass with a strap on dildo. Women for some reason freak out at this request and wonder if they’re partner is gay. The truth is, a guy doesn’t have to be gay to enjoy anal stimulation.
The Male G Spot – The prostate is back there and it feels great when stimulated. Your man is gay or at least bisexual if he wants a man to do it. It’s by no means gay in the slightest for your man to want you to do that to him. It’s not uncommon for women to have concerns about this topic when their man wants to be anally stimulated. Why does he want you to fuck him in the ass while wearing a big fat cock? It’s the same reason why you like doggy style. It’s simply a position and that’s it. Don’t fear the fact that he wants to take it from behind while on all fours. In fact, you may even find it exciting. Finally you’ll be able to experience what it’s like to have doggy style sex from the other position.
Fuck Like A Man – You’ll get to experience it almost as if you were a man. Generally speaking guys just don’t come right out and ask you to fuck them in the ass. It may start out with a finger up the rear or maybe even a dildo. Don’t be surprised by any of those or even a strap on. The bottom line is, you’re man isn’t gay. What your man wants is someone to pound the living daylights out of his ass. Just feel good that he wants the person to do that to be you!
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