Looking Good For Your Partner

Posted on October 16, 2017, in appearance, with Comments Off on Looking Good For Your Partner

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Is That New? – This suggestion may sound strange to some of you. Save up some money so you and your partner can buy one nice outfit each. You don’t have to save up thousands of dollars. Just enough where both of you can dress to impress the other. Keep in mind that you can use this outfit for other occasions also. So, maybe you shouldn’t make it too sexy. This isn’t a good time to go shopping for crotchless panties or edible underwear.

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Show Some Pride In Your Appearance – Why would you want to go through all the work of buying a great looking outfit? Every now and then you’ve got to look good for your partner. You’ve really got to wow them. That’s what this is all about. You want to impress the most important person in your life. It can be easy to forget that most of the time you’re not looking your best. Keep in mind what your partner sees every day. Sometimes you’ve just got to impress. This is something you should do at least a few times a year.

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You Wear It Well – Go out and buy yourself something nice. Make sure that you’re with them the first time you wear it. Doing so will cement the outfit in their memory. Every time your partner sees it, they’ll remember the first time you wore it. You’ve got to keep your relationship fresh and relevant. Even those who deeply love each other can find themselves bored in the relationships. It’s your job to keep things exciting. Visual attraction is important for both men and women. You should try your best to be visually attractive every now and then. Life today is busy and there might not always be time to look your best. That doesn’t mean you should forget how important attraction is. Want to really mix things up? Have your partner pick out the outfit. You may be surprised by what they think is attractive.

When They Let Themselves Go

Posted on April 24, 2017, in appearance, with Comments Off on When They Let Themselves Go

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Have Some Pride – What do you do when your partner is no longer attracted to you? Let’s assume that you’re in a solid relationship and infidelity isn’t a concern. It’s not your partner’s job to be attracted to you. Your job is to be attractive to them. Many people feel like loss of attraction is their partner’s fault. They for whatever reason aren’t attracted to them any more. You need to find out why you’re no longer attractive to your partner.

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Packing On The Pounds – Have you gained weight? You may have stopped taking care of yourself for whatever reason. It can be easy to get into a rut. You may not even notice that you’re not paying attention to your appearance. It’s often the case that people choose practicality and functionality over what looks good. The loose fitting jeans may be more comfortable ones that are skin tight. However, the ones that are skin tight will get your partner’s attention. You need to ask your partner why they aren’t visually attracted to you any more. Don’t be offended when they’re honest with you. Instead, take into consideration what they say. If their reasoning seems valid, then you need to make some changes. Ask them what changes you need to make. It could be as simple as shaving off the beard that you think looks so great. It may not look too great to the woman who has to see it every day. The same thing could be said about your housecoat. It sure is comfy, but it hides your curves.

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Show Some Effort – You may want to prance around the house wearing something a little different from time to time. The value of being visually aroused and attracted to someone can’t be understated. A person who isn’t visually satisfied won’t be sexually satisfied. No one looks good without effort. You have to take care of yourself and how you look. Unless you’re a supermodel, this is going to be the case. Talk to your partner and ask them what changes need to be made. You’ll actually feel better about yourself when you know your partner likes what they see.

Maintain Your Appearance To Keep Your Partners Interest

Posted on July 25, 2016, in appearance, with Comments Off on Maintain Your Appearance To Keep Your Partners Interest

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Don’t Be A Slob – Maintaining your appearance is an important thing. Most guys think this only applies to women. That simply couldn’t be further from the truth. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t give you the right to look like a slob. That means you’re going to have to ditch our pizza stained white T-shirt. Hold your breath and count to five in an attempt to calm down. It goes even further than that. You’ve also got to care about how you look. You’re not doing this because you care about what others think of you. You care about what your partner thinks of you. That’s the key to understanding why you need to care about your appearance.

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Take Care Of Yourself – This means you don’t eat too much. Get some exercise. Buy nice clothes and take care of them. Do you get the drift? This isn’t rocket science. All you’re doing is looking good for the person you love. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. You must be sexually attracted to the other person to make it work. The sexual attraction two people experience is the spark that creates excitement in a relationship. It’s not just about sex. It’s about enjoying the total experience you have with your partner. Sexual attraction is both thrilling and exciting. Every person should want their partner to experience this blissful connection that allows them to unleash their animal like desires. Sexual attraction is important in every relationship. It’s not uncommon for people to let themselves go at some point during a relationship.

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Shape Up, Or I’ll Be Shipping Out – A kind reminder is what it takes to let the person know that they’re appearance isn’t up to par. It’s not being sexist or shallow to tell your partner that they’ve let themselves go. It very well could be a sign that there are other problems as well. Nipping something like this in the bud will go a long ways in ensuring that you maintain a level of sexual attraction that is needed for a healthy relationship to survive and thrive.

Looking Good For Your Lover

Posted on January 18, 2016, in appearance, with Comments Off on Looking Good For Your Lover

This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.


Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.


Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.


Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.

Oh My, Isn’t It Lovely…

Posted on December 2, 2013, in appearance, with Comments Off on Oh My, Isn’t It Lovely…


Show Me Your Cock – What is the one body part most men prize above all others? The one they are the most proud of and like to brag about, even when totally unwarranted? Hell, even ones with pitiful, little laughworthy dicks like to brag about how tiny they are. One guy recently said to me life wouldn’t be worth living without his cock. True, life without orgasms wouldn’t be nearly as much fun this is for sure.


Keep It In Your Pants – I don’t know about most gals, but I don’t think they toss around pics of their pussy as freely as guy do with their cock pics. And wouldn’t you know, most are not worthy of sending. I can’t speak for most women, but I know for me personally body hair on both sexes is a no-no. I get some hairy dick pics and all but hurl…For the love of God get rid of the hair. If you can’t tolerate totally bare, at least trim it within an inch of its life, but hairless is so much better.


Shave It & Snip It – Even though I have to admit to being recently convinced it’s best not to mess with nature and circumcise, it does look better if it is. Cock pics with a turtleneck of skin are not the prettiest things for sure. They don’t call it “bumping the uglies” because they are so beautiful. Not many guys have been blessed with porn quality cocks. Oh well, the delete button not hard to get to. And if they get a mocking, sarcastic reply to an unasked for pic, they get what they deserve.