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All Things In Moderation, Even Porn

Posted on October 10, 2016, in porn, with Comments Off on All Things In Moderation, Even Porn

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Too Much Of A Good Thing – How do you know if you watch too much porn? Many people don’t realize that they’re watching too much. Too much of anything isn’t good for you. Porn and masturbation go together hand in hand. Most people who watch porn masturbate while doing so. We’ve already talked about how masturbation can have a negative impact on your sex life. Porn can have the same negative impact, along with a few other things that most people aren’t going to realize. Watching too much porn can give us too high of expectations of one another. No one can perform like they do in porn videos. This is a truth that should be common sense.

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Reality Check – Watch professional athletes play a game and see how they perform. You can’t slam dunk a basketball like they can. Why would you think that you or your partner should have the same oral sex skills as a porn star? Then there’s the bodies that the porn stars have. The guys have huge cocks and most of them spend all day in the gym. The women have big tits and rarely have an extra ounce of fat on them. Chances are you and your partner look nothing like the people in porn videos do. Unrealistic expectations when it comes to both performance and appearance is what watching too much porn will result in. Then no one is happy.

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Everything In Moderation – This isn’t to say that you should quit watching porn entirely. Just make sure you’re not jerking off to porn more than you’re having sex. Porn is a lot like restaurant food, a little every now and then is okay. Don’t eat more takeout than food than what your own two hands cook. Don’t watch more porn than you have sex. It’s as simple as that.

Let’s Watch Some Porn

Posted on May 30, 2016, in porn, with Comments Off on Let’s Watch Some Porn

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Let’s Watch Some Sex – Both men and women look at porn. Sure, men consume far more porn than women do. This always has been and always will be the case. What do you do when you discover your partner is looking at porn? Maybe they’re even watching a lot of porn. There’s the tubes, webcams, and even erotic literature online. So much smut exists on the internet it’s difficult to not run into it. Many people stumble across their partner’s browsing history and become shocked. Why would they ever want to look at porn when they have you? That’s what we’re going to talk about here.

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Getting Enough Real Sex? – Your partner’s porn viewing habits may or may not reflect what’s going on in the bedroom. Do you have an active sex life? If so, then your partner isn’t viewing porn because they aren’t getting any action in the sack. If you don’t have an active sex life, then that tells the story right there. Your partner probably doesn’t want to cheat on you and is masturbating while looking at porn. Nip it in the bud and get your sex life back on track. This sort of thing can wreck a relationship and luckily you saw the warning signs before it was too late.

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Get Some Sex Ideas – Let’s pretend for a minute that your sex life is great and your partner is still looking at porn. Should you feel hurt? The short answer is no. Get involved and watch porn with your partner. See what kind of stuff they’re into. The real fun part is acting out what you see in the videos. You can spice up your sex life by recreating your partner’s favorite sex scenes. Take this opportunity to explore and learn about you and your partner’s sexuality. The process will help you grow and enable the both of you to share in something new. Just remember those people in the videos are more than likely professionals. They have sex for a living and that means they’re a whole lore more skilled and flexible than the rest of us. You may want to skip twisting yourself up like a pretzel if you’re not a gymnast by nature.

Sex, Lies & Homemade Porn Tapes

Posted on November 2, 2015, in porn, with Comments Off on Sex, Lies & Homemade Porn Tapes

This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.

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Make A Homemade Porno – Today everyone has a smartphone with a camera inside it. That means you can make your own videos. The days of having to buy a tape and all that are a thing of the past. Making your own sex video can be a lot of fun. You can make it as complicated or as amateur as you want. That’s the best thing about making your own sex video. Guys can pretend to be a handyman or gals can be a damsel in distress. Your creativity is the only limit to what you can do. You’ve seen plenty of porn videos and there’s no need to lie about it. You can make yours like something you’ve seen or totally different.

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Trust Is Key – Don’t make videos with people you can’t trust. This is something only couples that have been together for awhile should do. It’s not uncommon for people to use sex tapes as a tool to punish people after they break up with them. Don’t allow this to happen to you by making a video with someone that’s untrustworthy. You very well could end up on a thousand porn sites if they get angry with you.

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For Your Eyes Only – Make sure the video is for your eyes only. You may even consider erasing it after watching it a few times. That way you know it can’t get into the wrong hands. You can always make another video and improve it with your experience. Always remember to have fun and ham it up for the camera. That’s the best way to ensure that you’re going to enjoy watching the video later. You can even fake moan like they do in the real porn videos. Don’t forget the cumshot! A good facial is a great way to end a sex tape. Just make sure to have a towel handy for when the camera isn’t rolling.