Pace Yourself – Are you overly sexually stimulated? That may appear to be an odd question to ask. It’s not as strange as you may think. The world today is full of sexual stimulation. Everywhere you look there are half naked people advertising something to you. The internet is full of porn. You’re always within reach of something that’s sexually stimulating. This is true even if you’re not seeking it out. What effect does being over sexually stimulated have on your sex life? It can make you less interested in what’s around you.
Everything In Small Doses – Keep in mind what you see online or on television is not at all like your partner. You can easily expect too much out of your partner’s appearance and even performance. This is especially true if you’re watching a lot of porn. You’re going to expect them to perform like a porn star in the sack. Your expectations of them will be too high. Cut back on the sexual stimulation. It’s not as hard as it sounds. You should have days where you try to avoid porn or over stimulating yourself. This will enable you to enjoy sex more. You’ll find that arousal will be easier to achieve. This in turn will have an impact on how your partner thinks of themselves. They’ll be far more into it if you’re extremely turned on by them. Everyone likes to feel that their partner finds them arousing. This is the hidden benefit of not being overly stimulated.
Restrain Yourself – Many couples feel like their sex life is boring. Some of the reason for that is over stimulation. That might not make sense to you now. Cut back on the porn for a few days and then have sex. Notice how different you feel. You’ll understand the impact this has on your sex life. There’s some stimulation that you’re never going to be able to avoid. They’ll always show sexy commercials on television. You can’t avoid seeing billboards with sexy looking people on them. However, there’s quite a bit that you can avoid. Try avoiding it for a short period and see how much of a difference it makes in your sex life. You’ll without a doubt find the results quite shocking.