Overcoming Sexual Shyness

Posted on July 20, 2015, in adult virgin, shyness, with Comments Off on Overcoming Sexual Shyness


Are You Shy – Many people that come to a site like this one seeking masturbation partners are not the most socially skilled. Some are fine and have no problems attracting mates, but others for many and varied reasons don’t do so well with interacting with he opposite sex. Some are hung up with religion and won’t have sex outside of marriage, others are very shy and only feel comfortable expressing themselves in an anonymous manner, others still are just in some way awkward and have slipped through the cracks of normal social milestones. Online fun is a good answer for these people.


Socially Awkward People Have Sexual Needs Too – Some men that may not easily attract women may turn to escorts for sexual release. This is a good answer for many of them, and there should be no stigma about paying for sex. It’s not a shortcut, or a failure. Sexual services are just that, services, entertainment, and you pay for entertainment, whether it’s paid phone sex or an escort you are with in person. Not everyone can afford an escort every night, or even every week, but when seeking sexual release, online fun such as free phone sex, cam sex, or cyber sex will absolutely make your masturbation more enjoyable than alone.


Don’t Masturbate Alone – Once you have shared an orgasm with another person, via real sex or on the phone, you will soon see how much better of an experience it is with someone than alone. Humans are for the most part social creatures and enjoy sharing everything from orgasms to their meals. It can be very lonely if you don’t have that on a regular basis, and online fun is simply more reachable for many people than in person. Sometimes starting to play with others online might be the stepping stone you need to begin an actual relationship with someone. Build your confidence in baby steps. Online fun of course is for many people, not just socially awkward ones, but sites like this do tend to attract ones with shyness issues in real life more than others.

Don’t Be Shy, Ladies!

Posted on March 3, 2014, in phone sex, shyness, with Comments Off on Don’t Be Shy, Ladies!



Shy Girls – One thing that constantly perplexes me is guys telling me girls are too shy to have phone sex. They can have cyber sex until their clits are numb, but try to get some on the phone and they won’t do it. Some will conclude they are guys and this is why they won’t take the next leap. I won’t go on cam, yet chat by voice with anyone, even non sexual talks, yet unless you will go on cam, some guys will also say you are a man, at which point I mention my audios, but they are so convinced you’re a man unless you go on cam, they won’t even bother listening to an audio to hear your voice.

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Be Brave – So many guys seem to have a sense of entitlement to seeing your pics, seeing you on cam, it’s ridiculous. If someone asks for pics, it personally makes me more reluctant to share. Don’t ask and I will share, ask and I’m put off. It’s that sense of them thinking they deserve to be granted some sort of special access they haven’t been invited to yet, annoys the hell out of me. Back to the topic at hand though, personally I don’t get why a girl is reluctant to phone. Ones not wanting to give their phone number can either get Google voice, if they are in the US, or use Yahoo or Skype or our own chat rooms that have audio.


Don’t Hide Your Light Under A Bushel – I say ones reluctant to have phone sex haven’t had good phone sex, because I can promise you once you do, it’s your favorite addiction and hobby. You don’t have to show yourself to them, it’s private, there’s nothing like being listened to as you cum and breathe heavy for someone else, it’s so sexy you’d never be shy once you experienced it and shared that orgasm with another interested party. Ladies, you are missing out, do not let another week go by without experiencing what masturbation can truly be like if you share it with someone. It’s a magical experience.