Agree On Terms – What is cheating? It’s a question that doesn’t have a singular answer. Cheating has no definition in a relationship until it’s given one. This is the key thing for everyone to understand when it comes to relationships. What you think of as cheating may not be the same as your partner. This is why it’s important to define the term early on in your relationship. Don’t let a situation arise where hurt feelings may occur over not understanding the level of commitment expected from each other. A kiss or even flirting can be seen as cheating.
Is Playing Ok? – Some couples are okay with the idea of mutual masturbation or even oral sex. While others may totally be comfortable with their partner having sex with someone else. This is why what is cheating needs to be established early on in the relationship. Going behind the back o f your partner is never a good idea. Lies do not make for a solid foundation. Anything other than that will crack at some point and the relationship will be over. What do you think is cheating? Tell your partner and get it out in the open. This is one area that you can’t leave to interpretation.
Trust Is Key – You have to set boundaries or things will eventually get out of hand. Most relationships can’t and won’t last if there are trust issues. It goes far beyond sex and it determines a person’s character. The limits you place will also help in judging your partners honesty. Never think you fully know someone until you actually do.
Can I Touch You There? – Let’s talk about prostate stimulation. Many guys enjoy it. This is when a finger or a toy is inserted in a guy’s asshole. Yes, we’re talking about the asshole. A man doesn’t have to be gay to enjoy the feeling of something going in and out of his asshole. Remember, it’s about more than just the asshole itself. What your guy is enjoying is having his prostate stimulated. There’s nothing gay or wrong about it. It’s a common thing and shouldn’t be surprising to anyone. A finger up the asshole is all it takes.
Come Here – You’ll want to do it in a “come here” type of motion. A curled finger is what will feel the best. What you’re trying to do is find the prostate. You’ll know that you’ve found it when you’re touching something that’s about the size of a walnut. Don’t be surprised if you don’t find it the first time. Are you freaked out about sticking your finger up a guy’s asshole? Don’t be. Don’t forget that you can and should wash your hands later. Stimulating the prostate during oral sex will send your guy into blast off mode. It’ll create pleasure like nothing else can.
Up Yours – Butt plugs and dildos are made specifically for prostate stimulation. You can easily find them at sex toy shops online or at your local adult bookstore. Do your research and find the right one. Generally speaking, any dildo or vibrator that’s thin should do the trick. A costly, specially made toy isn’t necessary. Though, if you’ve got the extra money to spend, it can be a wise investment. Your guy will enjoy having his prostate stimulated by a high quality state of the art toy that will produce a level of pleasure that neither of you will forget any time soon.
No Glove, No Love – For whatever reason you’re in a situation that you need to use condoms. It could be that you’re in a new relationship or want to change birth control methods. You may also want to give swinging a try and need some protection. Always remember to use a condom while swinging. Many people attend swingers parties or go to swingers clubs to meet up with other couples. It’s not uncommon for these people to be total strangers to you and your partner. Using condoms while in situations like these is a must.
Finding The Right Condom – Protecting yourself is also about taking the health of your partner into consideration as well. Any disease you catch will most likely be passed onto them. Guys and gals often find condoms to be a bummer. They don’t have to be. The first thing you’re going to want to do is find the right condom for you and your partner. There are many styles and brands on the market today. Check your favorite drug stores or online sex shops to see if they have variety packs. This is the most economical way of trying new condoms. A big box of condoms can be an expensive way to find out you don’t like a certain style or brand. You may even find that adult bookstores have lose condoms for sale. If they do, look through the bunch to see if there are any you haven’t tried yet.
All Natural – Now let’s talk about sheepskin or lambskin condoms. These are natural condoms made from the intestines of sheep. The feel of these condoms is nothing like latex at all. In fact, neither of you may even notice the condom at all. The downside to these natural condoms is that they don’t prevent the transmission of disease. They do however work as a great form of birth control. These condoms are best suited for those who are in a monogamous relationship that only care about preventing pregnancy.
Let’s Watch Some Sex – Both men and women look at porn. Sure, men consume far more porn than women do. This always has been and always will be the case. What do you do when you discover your partner is looking at porn? Maybe they’re even watching a lot of porn. There’s the tubes, webcams, and even erotic literature online. So much smut exists on the internet it’s difficult to not run into it. Many people stumble across their partner’s browsing history and become shocked. Why would they ever want to look at porn when they have you? That’s what we’re going to talk about here.
Getting Enough Real Sex? – Your partner’s porn viewing habits may or may not reflect what’s going on in the bedroom. Do you have an active sex life? If so, then your partner isn’t viewing porn because they aren’t getting any action in the sack. If you don’t have an active sex life, then that tells the story right there. Your partner probably doesn’t want to cheat on you and is masturbating while looking at porn. Nip it in the bud and get your sex life back on track. This sort of thing can wreck a relationship and luckily you saw the warning signs before it was too late.
Get Some Sex Ideas – Let’s pretend for a minute that your sex life is great and your partner is still looking at porn. Should you feel hurt? The short answer is no. Get involved and watch porn with your partner. See what kind of stuff they’re into. The real fun part is acting out what you see in the videos. You can spice up your sex life by recreating your partner’s favorite sex scenes. Take this opportunity to explore and learn about you and your partner’s sexuality. The process will help you grow and enable the both of you to share in something new. Just remember those people in the videos are more than likely professionals. They have sex for a living and that means they’re a whole lore more skilled and flexible than the rest of us. You may want to skip twisting yourself up like a pretzel if you’re not a gymnast by nature.
Rub & Tug – Here’s a post for all you ladies out there. Giving the perfect hand job isn’t as difficult as you may think. What’s the difference between a good hand job and a great one? It’s all about the lube. You’ve got to use plenty of lube or you’ll make your guy’s penis raw. Plus, it’s not going to feel very good. This is a difficult thing for most women to grasp. You’ve got to have enough lube to be slippery. All while not being too slippery. If your hand is too slippery, your guy isn’t going to feel all that much.
Slippery When Wet – What kind of lube should you use when beating off your man’s meat? Personal lubricant used for sex makes for a good hand job. What makes for a great one? This is a trick that only guys seem to know. The secret ingredient to a great hand job is lotion. You should use a hand lotion that’s kind of greasy. The lotion shouldn’t absorb right away into the skin. After all, you want to use the lotion as lubricant.
All The Right Moves – The right lube makes all the difference in the world. You’ll notice by the moans and groans that you’re man is really digging it. Slow and steady does the trick. Don’t try to be too fast. Jerking a guy off isn’t a race. The goal isn’t to make him have an orgasm as fast as possible. Pace yourself and enjoy the experience. Masturbating your partner can be very exciting. It gives you hands on experience when it comes to learning exactly what your guy likes.
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