Rub A Dub Dub – Have you ever thought about taking a shower or a bath with your partner? This isn’t away to help improve their personal hygiene. Taking a bath or a shower with your partner can actually be quite exciting. You get to see them naked. That’s always a plus. Who doesn’t like seeing someone of the opposite sex naked? Just seeing them naked is like winning the lottery. All the other fun stuff that happens in the bathtub is just a bonus.
Sexy Bathing – What can you do while in the shower or bathtub? You can wash each other. You’ll be surprised by just how erotic of an experience this can be. The slippery feeling of soap on your partner’s skin can be very arousing. You’ll also enjoy the feeling of them washing your body as well. How should you go about washing each other? Doing so in the shower is pretty straight forward. Anyone who needs help with that has bigger issues at hand. You can share a bath if your tub is big enough. You may even consider burning some incense or candles.
Get Clean To Get Dirty – Try to make it as romantic as you can. A little bubble bath might also be fun while taking a bath together. The quality of your relationship is a reflection of how much effort you put into it. The little things that you do together add up. There’s no one thing that will make a relationship great. Taking a bath together is all about sharing some quality time alone. It’s a period of time when the two of you can just unwind and relax.
How Do I Love Thee – When is the last time you wrote a love letter to your partner? This may sound like a stupid question for an adult. It’s not as stupid as it sounds. Everyone likes to know how their partner feels about them. Words can be difficult to say. Writing them makes it so much easier. Not only that, but it also takes time. People appreciate when someone takes time out to do something for them.
Read How I Feel – Write your significant other a love letter. Tell them exactly how you’re feeling inside. The love note can be steamy. Maybe you’d prefer to write a letter about sex. There’s no reason why you can’t do this. Sure, it won’t have the same appeal as a love letter would. That doesn’t mean your partner will toss it in the trash can. They’ll pull out the naughty letter when they’re in the mood to get kinky. You never know, it may be their go to masturbation material. Don’t worry if you’re not a writer by nature. Feelings from the heart or loins are what’s important. Just say what you’re thinking and feeling. Honesty is important when writing a letter such as this. Throw everything you were taught about grammar out the window as well. Just lay it all on the line. Your partner will actually be amazed by what you’ve been bottling up inside you.
Your Words Take My Breath Away – Go put pen to paper and spill out your heart. Maybe include a few lines of lust in it as well. Those who enjoy a healthy sex life know it takes work. Happiness in any form doesn’t just show up out of nowhere. The same could be said about the quality of your sex life. You should work on improving it every day. It’s the little things that add up in your efforts to do so. Go write the person you love a letter and see how they react. Their reaction will more than likely surprise you.
Condom Comeback – You thought your days using condoms were a thing of the past. You jumped up and down thinking you’d never use one again. Now they’re back. They keep coming back like a villain in a horror movie. You’re not done with condoms after all. In fact, you may be using them for quite some time. Condoms are an effective form of birth control. They can also help not get the lady parts all messy during sex.
Protect Yourself – Many people who are in committed relationships use condoms even though both partners are committed to the other. There may be health reasons why birth control pills aren’t an option. Condoms are here to save the day regardless of the reason. Now the emphasis isn’t on disease prevention. It’s not a concern if you’re in a solid relationship. The purpose of using condoms is solely to not get knocked up.
Research Your Options – The internet is a great place to start your condom research. However, you’re going to need to know what your local drug store has. Don’t go to a gas station or some place that doesn’t have a wide variety of condoms. Most convenience stores only have a few brands. You’re going to need a wider selection than that. You’ll need to find the right condom for both of you. Yes, this is going to involve some homework. The good new is, this is the kind of fun homework you’ll enjoy.
Shop With Pride – You used condoms in the past to not get pregnant and to protect yourself against STDs. Then you didn’t care about the overall sexual experience. It was just hot, passionate sex that you were after. Now you’re settled down and things like comfort are what you take into consideration. Lambskin condoms are a great choice for those who solely want to protect against pregnancy. There are also non-latex condoms that you can try. Whatever you do, don’t settle for the condoms sold in the bathrooms in seedy locations. There’s nothing to be shy about when it comes to buying condoms. You can stand up proud and display the fact that you’re getting some action.
Massage For Lovers – Have you ever thought about using massage as a form of foreplay? Many of you probably only think of a massage as something you receive in a parlor. It doesn’t have to be that way. You can enjoy the soothing and relaxing aspects of a massage at home. You’ll save money and have the convenience of getting greasy in your own bed. That greasy feeling may end up helping you get lucky.
Rub Me, Baby – What do you need to give a good massage? The truth is, you only need your hands. However, you may want to invest in some massage oil or lotion. Any type of lotion that you have in your house will more than likely do. You should also learn a few techniques on how to give a proper massage. You can do this by searching Google or YouTube. If you’re too lazy to do that, just start rubbing and squeezing. You’ll find out what your partner likes eventually. Why not make it a massage with a happy ending? Give your guy a hand job once the massage is all over. Guys, you can masturbate your woman as well. You can even use the massage as a way to arouse your partner. Touch all the places where they like to be touched.
Feels So Good – The feeling of it being done with lotion or oil on your hands will make it more exciting. Don’t feel like you have to perform like one of those highly trained and experienced masseurs who work at a massage parlor. You’ll learn as you go. The most important part of arousal is the touching. Massaging your partner includes plenty of touching. Don’t go straight for the naughty bits when giving a massage. Work your way up to those areas. Doing so, will improve your chances of getting lucky.
No Time For Romance And Flowers – What’s the value of a quickie? That might sound like a strange question. Some people may think that quickies are a selfish way of having sex. Usually it means, the man gets off and the woman is just there for the ride. The true value of a quickie is that it strengthens the bond of your relationship. That sounds like chick talk and it needs to be broken down.
Do Me Quick – A quickie is the type of sex that involves little to no foreplay. Not everyone has the time to have full blown foreplay and everything that comes along with it. The option of not having sex isn’t there, it would create undo stress between the two of you. A quickie enables the horny person to satisfy their urges and get on with life. Quickies are great tools to help smooth out the wrinkles of a relationship that happen due to infrequent sex. It may not be as fulfilling for one or both parties involved, but sometimes, it’s the best a person can hope for. No couple should rely on quickies. They certainly don’t fulfill anyone’s sexual needs fully. However, they can be a useful tool to build and strengthen your relationship. Sex is about more than pleasure and the release of stress. It’s the vital building block that’s the foundation of all healthy relationships.
Strengthen The Bonds – You can’t have a strong relationship without sex. Understanding and reacting to your partner’s sexual needs is a pillar of that relationship. Take advantage of quickies when you don’t have the time or desire for marathon love making sessions. They’re a helpful tool in building and strengthening the lifelong bond you’ll share with your partner.
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