This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
So Many Choices – Any guy that’s ever bought a sex toy for a woman knows how difficult it can be. They come in all different shapes, sizes, and even colors. Here we’re going to give you a brief guide on how to buy a sex toy for a woman. The first thing to realize is that bigger isn’t always better. There can be some really big sex toys for sale at your local adult bookstore. Don’t go for the biggest one that you can find. That is, unless you’re buying it as a gag gift. There is such a thing as being too big and she won’t use the sex toy if it is.
Toys For Pleasure – Should you buy a vibrator or a dildo? The best choice is to go with a modestly sized vibrator. You can get a penis shaped toy that has a vibrator in it. That would be the best of both worlds. The truth is, you want to buy something that she’s going to use. It’s even better if she’ll let you use it on her. That’s like buying yourself a gift in the long run. You’ll end up having way more fun using it on her than she will. Who doesn’t enjoy watching the person they love experience great amounts of pleasure?
Powerful Pleasure – Don’t forget the batteries when buying a sex toy. The adult bookstore where you buy your toys may have batteries. But, they may be expensive or a low quality off brand. Pay close attention to the batteries that your sex toy needs. Then go to the store and get a big package of them. That way the person your giving the toy to can have a real good time with it.
A Good Hand – You really can’t beat the fingers for a good masturbation session. Nimble, able to exert just the right amount of pressure, able to change movements quickly, up and down, back and forth, circles, there’s nothing like some lube covered fingers to get the job done right. No batteries to worry about, no waste of water, just simple stroking, whether you are a clit only girl, or like to insert and try for the g spot, the fingers will make masturbation like you’re playing your body like a fine musical instrument.
Water Water Everywhere – The shower massager is hard to beat for intensity in the orgasm. A water induced orgasm is usually fast and furious and explosive in it’s intensity. Hot tub and pool jets are a less intense version that the shower massager, where you can have a solid stream of water, or play around with pulse settings. A particularly intense water induced orgasm can be achieved by bending over and having the water massager hit your clit from behind. Some girls like the less intense laying on their back in the tub and letting the water just flow over their clit, but for many that is just not going to be enough stimulation to cum with as they masturbate.
Sex Toys – Some girls love their vibrators a lot. They find it a great way to masturbate, you just lay there and let the toy do the work. You have tiny bullet vibes just for clit stimulation, full on dildos for internal fun, or g spot vibrators made to make you squirt. Some ladies do enjoy variety in their toys to enjoy during different moods they are in. Masturbation is always a fun and healthy activity that can relieve stress and simply make us feel good.
Foot Fuckers Delight – There are lots of downright creepy sex toys out there for you to use and abuse during your masturbatory sessions. When most people think of a sex toy, they think of dildos and vibes, maybe a Fleshlight for guys, but we can assure you, the varieties of sex toys out there is literally in the thousands. Not all are creepy, some are funny, some are functional and basic, nothing out of the ordinary, but some are downright odd. Disembodied body parts that look as thought they have been lifted from a crime scene and dirty, debased things done to it to make it sexual. Here are just a few. Are you into foot jobs? That in and of itself doesn’t seem too wild, but how about combining a severed foot with a Fleshlight, now that’s a bit – odd.
Teddy Bear Bed Buddy – Now what could be more innocent than a teddy bear? The very icon of childhood itself. Until you started to hump it and cover it with your cum and or pussy juice! I’ve heard of ones humping their pillows, or balled up sheets or a towel, but not even in my pervy, horny, masturbation filled youth did I ever do anything with a stuffed toy. Well for ones that did and still are, which apparently some adults are doing, there’s now a teddy bear for your…more intimate needs shall we say. Complete with vibrating tongue that sticks out and muzzle. Isn’t that just charming.
Stick Your Dick In This – For ones that find a Fleshlight a bit too, well, boring, there’s a more realistic alternative. A half of a man’s face, for the more bi curious masturbators I guess, complete with mustache. Now if this gaping mouth doesn’t give you nightmares about your dick being bitten off by someone or something, I’m not sure what will. We could go on, but these three toys will no doubt make you think twice about your hand being a bit too boring!
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Sex Toys – Toys are not just for the ladies, sex toys for men have grown in leaps and bounds over the last number of years. The Fleshlight being the most popular one of all. Ladies always have had more variety available to them for their choice of masturbation needs, since we have more ways to masturbate then men do as a rule. Men have anal toys, and penis sleeve type toys like the Fleshlight they stick their dick into. Women have balls, eggs, external vibes, internal vibes, G spot vibes, the list is endless.
How Much Is That Dolly In The Window – Men do have the option of blow up sex dolls, which while I guess are also available to women, I’d think not many ladies are blowing up dolls to have sex with at the same rate that men seem to. Some sex dolls are not blow up ones, but very expensive $10,000 + deluxe silicone dolls that look extremely lifelike and downright creepy if you ask me that are stored on hooks they hang on while not in use. Yes, I can see how many girlfriends or wives would totally accept a silicone doll hanging in their guys closet by the back of the neck or in her crate.
No Lover – For ones with no lover around that might be afraid to visit an escort, sex toys can certainly add to their variety as they masturbate. It’s much more exciting than your hand and as much as I personally prefer my own hand to some toy, some women are only able to orgasm at all while using a vibrator.
Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.
Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.
Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!
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