Tell Me You Love Me – People look for different sorts of interactions when they look online for fun partners. Most are just looking for a fun, good and casual time. Many are happy with one time encounters, like horny ships passing in the night. Others are looking for longer term pairings, where if they are horny they can go back to one another again and again, some such pairings can literally last for years. I was a bit shocked when recently my longest term phone partner of 5 years said I’d been in his life longer than any real life girlfriend he’d had.
I Want You – Some partners for phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex can get involved in each others lives to a degree, others are more secretive and without much real life info from their online partners. Worried about privacy or stalkers or any number of things infringing on their offline life. It can be awkward when one starts to feel more deeply than the other one does and in fact they can fall in love with their online partner. I’d heard many times about the “girlfriend experience”, but one said recently some girls were seeking a “boyfriend experience”. They want an online boyfriend to be there for them, tell them they love them, and sometimes seek offline real encounters as well, and sad to say most guys are only seeking online fun, and are not looking to carry things over into real life.
Online Better Than Real – Many times what we see online is the best of someone, the sexy, adorable side of someone and we grow to fall for them and idealize them. We don’t know what they are really like in their day to day life, we only know what they have chosen to reveal to us, and when all we see is the good and sexy part, it’s not that hard to fall for some of them. Sadly, some of us get hurt in such a situation. Some guys can get scared and flee when an online girl they play with gets “clingy”. I’ve heard this many times from guys. Many guys enjoy bringing an element of realism into especially phone sex play and talk about real life meetings, “Oh wouldn’t it be hot…”, yet when you buy into it and agree to go along, boy do some of them run scared. It’s cruel to lead someone on. Many girls and ladies are emotional sorts and can indeed fall for the online Casanova’s out there and get hurt when things don’t progress as we’d like them to.
50 Shades Of Naughty – Have you and your lover been looking for more exciting ways to get each other going? Maybe some sex toys might get you more aroused than just the same old normal routine. BDSM is something more and more couples are exploring and delving into these days. Missionary in the dark is fine, but for ones that want to put a bit more va va voom in their sex life, it might be worth exploring to see how you like it.
Tie Me Up, Please – Many times couples get into a sexual rut and need some variety to spice things up, after all, even steak every night can become boring. Toys, restraints, cuffs, all serve to further fantasy and roleplay that many find make things a lot more arousing than the same old routine. Many movies and books have storylines that might inspire you or excite you in ways you didn’t imagine would get your juices flowing. The 80’s classic “9 1/2 Weeks” has some very arousing scenes in it that might inspire you to kick things up a notch with your lover.
Please Sir, Give Me More – It can be very seductive to hand over control of your orgasm to another and have them make you beg for it, having them bring you to the brink and back again until you can’t take anymore. Give it to your lover across the backside with a riding crop. Being tied up can be very erotic. Blindfolding your lover can bring an element of surprise to each and every touch. Make them quiver and flinch! Submission and domination can be very sexy role reversals we are not used to in our everyday lives. Often seeking the opposite position to that which we normally hold.
National Masturbation Month – I’m sure most of us masturbate every single month, many every singe day, but May is National Masturbation Month. It was started in 1995 by a sex toy store in San Francisco to celebrate masturbation because at the time the US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was let go because she felt kids in school should be taught masturbation was an important part of sexuality as well. Apparently it was just too radical an idea.
Times Are Changing – Luckily some governments are moving forward, and for the last few years the UK and another European country actually have active campaigns to encourage the nations youth to masturbate to cut down on teen pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases and enhance pleasure for ones without partners. Many don’t know in the late 1800’s doctors preached so on the evils of self abuse, they came up with “libido deadening foods” like Corn Flakes and Graham crackers to supposedly take away the sex drive and lessen the chances ones would masturbate. Hard to believe, but 100% true.
No Shame In Self Love – Now no one’s suggesting you whip it out on a mall bench and have at it just because it’s an ok thing to do, it has its time and place. Masturbation is a normal activity most of us engage in and enjoy. It’s free, it’s safe, no risk of disease, is pleasurable and a stress reliever. When you find someone on a site like this to join you and have cyber sex, cam sex or phone sex with it kicks it up to a whole new level, once you try it with someone, alone no longer cuts it. So enjoy some self love today!
The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.
Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.
Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!
Come Chat Tonight – Online chat and chat rooms are a very important part of socialization for many of us. Many people just do not make real life friends or acquaintances easily, yet online, we can be our true selves, when we don’t have to be face to face. People that are normally shy are all of a sudden witty and open and not hiding behind their veil of shyness. Online chat rooms are a lot of fun! Not everyone goes into adult chat rooms just to chit chat though, but that can be a lot of fun as well.
Find An Online Masturbation Partner – Many are there for one reason only, to find a partner for naughty fun, and that is a whole other kind of fun! Finding someone to masturbate with and watch them on cam, or talk to them on the phone or over voice chat online, or even just cyber sex. Chat rooms are the online equivalent of a bar, a pick up joint, a meat/meet market. Chat rooms are where we search for like minded, horny individuals that are looking for masturbation partners. It is soooo much more fun to masturbate with someone than alone. To enjoy the sexy sounds of another as they approach orgasm and then when they actually cum, how on earth could alone ever do after sharing that?! It can’t.
Chat To Your Hearts Content – Mutual masturbation is so much more fun, interactive and enjoyable and ones that might never consider ever going to a bar to look for a one night stand, might have no problem trolling around the internet chat rooms to find a masturbation partner. If no one in chat interests you, you can always have some lively banter with others in the room and say all kinds of fun things you might be too shy to say to your in person friends. There are some very nice people online, they aren’t all jerks and bitches!
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