Let’s Meet – Now obviously it goes without saying a site like this one is mainly meant for online fun. Finding phone sex, cyber sex, web cam sex and sexting partners. However some people do seek real life meets on a site like this even though it’s not your average or technically speaking, a dating site. In the forums we do have a section for ones looking for real life sexual encounters.
Can We Make This Work – Most want to keep things online strictly online, many don’t even wish to exchange phone numbers or even chat on yahoo or Skype. They truly want to keep things only online. For ones that may get bit attached and the other not, that can prove a problem. Many are looking for casual sex and although we are not a hook up site like some are, I’m sure some have likely met with ones they found here and had fun with them if that’s what they are both looking for.
Dating Sites – Many true dating sites you wouldn’t think attract ones looking for casual sex, but trust me, they are. I have gotten countless message on genuine dating sites, not online fun sites and the guys were only looking for casual sex. Some dating sites even have an intimate encounters section for ones looking for that. Yes, there’s always an element of concern when meeting an online person, but you could meet a real nutjob at WalMart or the grocery store as well, and seeing as most people are online, it’s not really any greater a risk than meeting someone at a bar.
Risky Impregnation Fetish – One role play that seems fairly popular among people is the impregnation one. Breeding and bareback sex, it’s all quite intimate and sexy. Even for ones that do not want kids, it can have a fantasy only appeal. No, I do not actually wish to become pregnant, not now, not ever, but in phone sex calls and I’d imagine for ones into cyber, it has an appeal of intimacy and hot, risky sex to it.
Breed Me – The thought of a raw, sexual encounter, so primal and lustful and perhaps unplanned so no time to prepare with something as silly as birth control. It’s appealing and dangerous and like Russian roulette, yet you just can’t stop yourself even knowing the lifelong consequences, the passion is that great, the connection is that strong. The thought of a fertile pussy awaiting the delivery of potent seed from a hard and throbbing cock that is about to explode with lust and flood your waiting womb does have a primitive appeal. I recall a man telling me there’s nothing like the sex when you’re trying for a baby. I guess it must be different in some way, I can’t relate as kids are not something I ever wanted, but for fantasies and phone sex, it has its place for sure.
My Fertile Womb – Even in men that are sterile, this seems to be a popular fantasy. Perhaps since they know it will in fact never be a reality, it makes it all the more sexy and hot to live out in their self created sex scenarios. Breast milk fetish also popular, both with ones into impregnation fetish and into mommy role plays, but they do not always want a mommy when they are into breast milk fantasies.
Zestfully Clean – Many of us pride ourselves on smelling good and sexy, either because of the perfume, body sprays or cologne we use. Some however just prefer a clean smell, fragrance free, or a slight soap scent. There are however those that prefer the more earthy body scents, as in unwashed, ripe, dirty. The purpose of pubic and underarm hair is to trap smells, odors in the two smelliest parts of our bodies. The cave men loved it and found it very sexy!
What’s That Smell – In more modern times, we strive to avoid such stinky scents though, so by bathing regularly and using deodorant sand anti perspirants and shaving we can significantly cut down on these smells that would otherwise cling to our body hair. It truly is cleaner without body hair, nice and smooth, yet some can’t get over the pre pubescent appearance and feel strange about seeing an adult with no body hair. Just a hang up some have. Nature made things the way she did for a reason though and it’s a constant battle to keep scents at bay.
No More Fishy Pussy – North Americans seem more concerned about them than others, bathing more and spending more on toiletries. There are some men out there though that do go for the great unwashed smell, wanting sex after a workout, or after having been walking around all day doing your errands and chores and not right out of the shower fresh, I guess they are the throwbacks to some of the cavemen, because I have indeed spoken to men that desired an “unwashed fishy pussy”, “sweaty ass”, etc. Unreal, but true, so they are going into overdrive at the natural odors. You don’t have to be out of the shower fresh to turn on every man, but best to be clean and then find out how they like it. I’ll just stick to being clean, if they want fishy pussy, they can look elsewhere!
You Look Hot – It goes without saying most guys are very visual. Many love to watch porn as they masturbate or even as a couple, to heighten sexual arousal overall. Sexy pics aren’t quite as exciting as porn, but the chances you know the people in the porn movie are small, the chances you could know the person in the nude pic, well, they could be high. It’s very common these days to be sending nude pics to others we know for the purpose of arousal.
Text Me – The sending of cock and pussy pics, pics of ourselves masturbating, it’s all so easy these days. It wasn’t so long ago that there were no digital cameras. Imagine if you wanted a picture, you literally had to load rolls of film into a camera, and unless you developed them yourself, good luck taking a roll of such pics to any place to develop it, they’d likely call the police for lewd conduct, and I’m not kidding. Now anyone can snap pics and send them around the world in seconds with no need for actual film, developing, any of that.
Is That Real Or Photoshopped – It’s easy these days if you’re talented at it to “enhance” your pics with many photo editing programs. So guys can all of a sudden add a couple of inches to their cock pics and be studs with a few mouse clicks. Pics however can be sexy to many people and they do indeed masturbate to them. Many do send genuine pics of themselves to their cyber sex and phone sex partners to perhaps look at and enhance their sessions with one another. If you can’t actually be with someone, pics or cam is the next best thing to see the most intimate sides of them.
Sexy Sexting – Before sexting there was cyber sex. Computers came before cell phones and most used to use the computer for role playing and chatting naughty in either chat rooms or in instant message chat windows. Many find erotic chat and naughty messages more than enough to get aroused by, especially if you have a partner that’s a fast typist and with a good imagination that can easily paint pictures with their words.
Cyber For Cell Phones – Now, most people have cell phones and when they aren’t in front of an actual computer, they can get messages via text on their phones, naughty, sexual messages and pictures that can excite the ones they are sending them to. I’ve heard of some guys that like to text their lady friends when they are at work, to get them worked up there, or when the ladies are at home sitting next to their husbands or boyfriends and their cyber lover sends them a new pic of his cock with a steamy message attached. Everywhere you go you see people typing away on their phones, and who honestly knows what they are typing. Could be the grocery list, could be how they are looking forward to sliding their fingers into their soaked panties and rubbing their clit as they read the next message that comes in.
Naughty Behavior In Public – You could be in an office meeting with your boss and be sending pussy pics to your online masturbation partner at the same time. Better hope boss lady doesn’t peek over your shoulder while you’re sending saucy pics of your kitty over the interwebs! No matter the technology, have no doubt someone will quickly move to sexualize it and have it play a role in sex or masturbation in some capacity. If you’ve been looking for a sexting partner in our forums Invitation Only section is a good place to start searching. Many there are looking just like you are.
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