Rub One Out – Some of you may be aware May is National Masturbation Month. For many on a site like this, it’s an everyday event we know, sometimes multiple, but we all must admit masturbation acceptance has come leaps and bounds in the past century and even in the past decades. Imagine in the Victorian Era, parents actually bound their children’s hands or put anti masturbation mittens on them to prevent them from touching themselves. Kellogg’s Corn Flakes and Graham Crackers were originally created as anti masturbation foods to dull the libido, odd but true.
It’s All Very Natural – It’s sad how many people tell me they feel guilty for masturbating when it’s as natural a thing to do as sneeze, sleep or have a drink of water. You wouldn’t feel guilty for doing any of those things, would you? Not likely. It’s funny how people can joke about someone passing gas or burping, yet masturbating, OMG, you’re going to hell, you filthy masturbator! It astounds that everyone isn’t encouraging it since it would cut down on the sexual frustrations of the young, lead to less sexual involvement with others if young people knew how to give themselves orgasms in a relaxed manner, would cut down on men growing up to be premature ejaculators since they didn’t grow up with the fear of being caught and so no need to hurry. The roots of many sexual dysfunctions are based in the worry of being caught masturbating, or hurrying up to prevent it.
Don’t Shame – in cases where someone is sadly caught that didn’t shut or lock a door, the best thing is just to turn around, shut the door, act as if nothing happened and never say a word about it. I’ve heard people say their parents either wouldn’t allow door locks, didn’t knock before walking in, or in extreme instances removed doors entirely for zero privacy. It’s unthinkable when people deserve and need privacy the most they would be robbed of this basic human dignity. For some people masturbation is their only outlet for sexual release, it’s important to not feel shame or shame others for a natural act.
A Good Hand – You really can’t beat the fingers for a good masturbation session. Nimble, able to exert just the right amount of pressure, able to change movements quickly, up and down, back and forth, circles, there’s nothing like some lube covered fingers to get the job done right. No batteries to worry about, no waste of water, just simple stroking, whether you are a clit only girl, or like to insert and try for the g spot, the fingers will make masturbation like you’re playing your body like a fine musical instrument.
Water Water Everywhere – The shower massager is hard to beat for intensity in the orgasm. A water induced orgasm is usually fast and furious and explosive in it’s intensity. Hot tub and pool jets are a less intense version that the shower massager, where you can have a solid stream of water, or play around with pulse settings. A particularly intense water induced orgasm can be achieved by bending over and having the water massager hit your clit from behind. Some girls like the less intense laying on their back in the tub and letting the water just flow over their clit, but for many that is just not going to be enough stimulation to cum with as they masturbate.
Sex Toys – Some girls love their vibrators a lot. They find it a great way to masturbate, you just lay there and let the toy do the work. You have tiny bullet vibes just for clit stimulation, full on dildos for internal fun, or g spot vibrators made to make you squirt. Some ladies do enjoy variety in their toys to enjoy during different moods they are in. Masturbation is always a fun and healthy activity that can relieve stress and simply make us feel good.
I Like The Sounds Of That – It’s a proven fact that visual porn desensitizes you and makes it harder to cum or get aroused if you indulge in it too much. Audio stimulation does not seem to fit into the same overload for the senses and is very natural to listen to, even if it’s over the phone during phone sex, or by listening to an erotic audio of sex sounds.
Music To My Ears – Many women are quite vocal during sexual encounters and when they orgasm. Lots of times if you’re at hotels and can overhear a couple having sex, it’s not the man’s voice you overhear, it’s the woman’s. It’s a very primal sound that many anthropologists claim was originally for the purpose of alerting nearby men to the fact that there was a female in a sexually receptive state and within earshot of them, so if they followed the sound they too might get lucky! I doubt the woman at The Holiday Inn is hooting and hollering with female orgasm sounds to expect a line outside her door for her to service after, but it’s a carry over of a very ancient reflex. Even now, many animals emit mating calls to alert potential mates.
Sex Sounds – Some people that are too private to show pics of themselves or go on cam, might be perfectly happy to make erotic audio recordings of themselves for others to enjoy and listen to or engage in phone sex with other members they may meet here on climaxconnection for mutual masturbation fun. All you need to do is close your eyes and listen to the audios to enhance your masturbation routine. So check out our audios section and listen to some sex sounds, or a sexy story being read and get off hard tonight!
Erotic Short Stories – Many people love to be titillated with erotic works of fiction. It’s often one of the first things we find to enjoy ourselves with when we are young and may not have had access to porn. Many today forget a lot of us were raised when there was no internet, perish the thought! How did we manage!? With erotic fiction. Often a family member might have had a racy book or two around, and it may very well have been all we had access to, we would picture with our mind’s eye all the naughty things people were getting up to in the stories.
Racy Writers – Some of us love to write. We simply have active imaginations and a seed will be planted in our mind to make a naughty story. A fantasy we wish to be fleshed out, a short real life experience that didn’t go very far that we wish had, so we embellish on it to make a story and share our dirty thoughts with others, so they too may garner enjoyment out of it as they masturbate. To properly weave a story that engages others is indeed a talent. A few dirty scenes can go a long way to get people horny and then get them off. Well written erotica can be very pleasing to masturbate with. Many people might not have the privacy to talk on the phone, but they can quietly masturbate as they read a juicy story or two.
Sexy Stories – Most of us are never going to have the recognition or popularity of Danielle Steel on such a scale, but many writers do gain a decent online following at erotic stories sites. It’s nice that everyday people can get a fan following that only a couple of decades ago would only be reserved for authors of published books. Sites like this make it possible for everyone to share their stories and fantasies they have brought to life by writing them out. If you write erotic short stories, do please submit your original works and see what kind of a following you can get from our members.
Can You Be True – One thing that always astounds me is when I hear some people telling me I chat with is how they are exclusive to a phone sex partner, or cam sex partner online. Not all people are like this certainly, but some are. Then one of them meets someone else to play with and the one they were playing with feels hurt and cheated on. I think it’s very unrealistic to expect another person you’re having online fun with to remain faithful and not play with others if they are playing with you. Variety is a good thing and should be explored.
Do You Love Me – One thing about online fun is sometimes one partner gets more attached than the other one. So it can be extra hard if they are to find out they are being cheated on with someone else, and if there’s one thing about online sex chat sites, it’s that they are like living soap operas come to life. People cheating on others, players, ladies men, sluts, villains! The cast of characters on a chat site is very much like the soaps. Long lost characters reappearing, heartbreakers, secrets. Monogamy is difficult enough in real life, maybe the swingers and ones into having an open relationship have the right idea. Enjoy everyone you wish to.
Monogamy = Monotony – For many people this holds very true and no matter how much they may love their partner, they simply have no plans to be faithful towards them. They might be able to hide it well or be discreet, but they are simply not going to do without the variety they crave. So for online partners, it’s even more easy to play the field since no risk of disease or pregnancy, so you can literally have phone sex or cyber sex with hundreds of people and have no worries. So play the field and enjoy!
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