This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red.
Make Me Cum – I think that we all agree that an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable sensations known to humans. For many individuals the ultimate goal of a sexual experience, whether it is alone or with a partner, is to have an orgasm. Although orgasms are the main part of many sexual experiences, what are the mechanisms that control orgasmic responses? My curiosity has led to me to try and find some answer. Like an orgasm the subject is very intense, I hope you find the results interesting.
The Big “O” – The word “orgasm” came from the Greek word orgasmos, which means “to swell” or “to be lustful.” There is no one universally accepted definition for orgasm, and we don’t know why humans evolved the capability to have orgasms. All the animal world have a built in desire to reproduce, which results in their seed being planted, we know that female dogs and cats have a period when they “come on heat,” It’s their reproduction cycle,
Bird Do It Bees Do It – This also applies to the bigger cats, etc, and even elephants and whales. In human males and females, an orgasm brings about numerous physiological and neurochemical changes in the body. The intense feelings of pleasure associated with orgasm are the result of the release of built-up neuromuscular tension known as myotonia, where as in an animal it is a means to an end. In humans it is an extreme sensation like no other that seems to make us want the experience over and over again, why? Is our built in desire to reproduce?
It’s All Very Natural – During orgasm the feelings experienced by both males and females are very similar. A few years ago, based on direct laboratory observation of more than 10,000 episodes of sexual activity in over 600 men and women, two sexuality-research pioneers, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, came to the conclusion that the human sexual response cycle consists of four distinct stages. These four stages are excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
Reaching Orgasm – The orgasmic stage is the shortest but most intense of the four. There are striking similarities in the physiological events that occur in both the male and female body during orgasm. Studies have also shown that during orgasm the feelings experienced by both males and females are very similar. One study showed that even “sex experts” could not even reliably distinguish between written accounts of male and female orgasms.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red.
There has been and is possibility more information about sex than any other subject, on and off the internet. It has been reported that men think of sex at least once every day, and ¼ of females think about it frequently, is this true? Is this why more men than females frequent chat rooms looking for sex? Or is it a challenge to see if they can chat up a female into some sex act to fulfill their own cravings? Does that make them sexual prowlers? I am not qualified to delve into the whys and wherefores of sexual philosophy and physiology.
All I know is that I have sexual fantasies and desires, which I can fulfill in a chat room chatting with male or female, to me it’s about satisfying my need to have a climax. In other words to stimulate my need to masturbate hoping that the other person is also aroused by what I type, or show in photos. Some show themselves on web cams, there is nothing more annoying than being forced to look at naked body parts, when I am not asked. The feeling is I suppose that if you see an erection or a pair of breasts it arouse you, that is not necessary so.
I am a hedonist, a pleasure seeker, I have this strong urge to have orgasms, alone or sharing. I visit a chat room in the hope of arousing myself and others into an act of mutual masturbation. Sometimes a sex chat is very fulfilling and the sparks fly, other times it just titillates the need and perhaps I will masturbate alone later thinking about the conversation or if they sent me a photo, looking at it as I cum.
One of the attractions is that you can be whoever you want, your real self or a fantasy person, and perhaps by your chat name give an idea of your own needs. There are different types of chat rooms in different formats. The chat format at Climax Connection has been carefully thought out, some have audio and webcam facility which if you don’t want to use you can turn off. There are a number of different rooms to cater for most tastes.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Get Closer – Spicing up your sex life is important. It’s more than just pleasure. Sex is also about bonding. It gives you the ability to bond with your partner. This is something that can’t be overlooked. You should always seek ways to strengthen your relationship. Sex is the best way of doing so. It’s hard to argue with someone when you’re enjoying a moment of blissful passion.
Dress Up – Women, it’s important that you realize men are visual creatures. They think with their eyes first. Then the brain follows along. This is why lingerie is always a hot seller. It will be from now until the end of time. It doesn’t have to be expensive or anything over the top. After all, you’re probably not going to be wearing it for too long. Just a sexy pair of panties and a bra will do. Break out the special pair for the times you want to get kinky. You’ll notice his interest in you right away. All it will take is a quick flash and he’ll be following you into the bedroom.
A Change Of Scenery – Renting a hotel room for the night can be a great way to spice up your love life. Especially if you don’t live alone. Let your parents babysit the kids for a night. They’ll love being around them. You’ll love having some alone time with your man. You won’t have to worry about being quiet or anyone walking in on you. The two of you will be able to enjoy hot passionate sex. Either that or finally being able to watch your favorite television program in silence for a change.
Who Are You – Role playing is another great way to make things exciting. You can be the naughty nurse or he can be the plumber. Be as creative as you want. It’s your fantasy. This is a way that you can live out things without having to step outside of your relationship. It’s a healthy way to change things up a bit. You can take role playing as far as you like. You can wear costumes and even pretend to be different people. You can be the actress you’ve always dreamed of. While exciting your biggest fan in the process.
Spice Things Up – There you have some fun and exciting ways to add pizzazz to your sex life. Dull and boring is never fun. That’s why you should always seek new ways to change things. Great sex is an important part of any relationship. It’s the very thing everyone should strive for. Get out there and do something kinky. Your partner will be the happiest person on planet earth if you do!
Let’s Chat – If you enjoy a good, fun adult conversation, it can be hard at times to find the right adult chat site for you. There are lots of sites offering adult chat, but so many are just with random chatters you will never see again with no sign up to the site required. Many people are seeking a true adult community website that they can call their online home. Not everyone looking to just chat is looking for a mutual masturbation partner, many are just seeking a way to kill a few hours and do something fun, free and relaxing.
Naughty Chat – Ones of course seeking the fun of getting a masturbation partner will find fun if they look in the adult chat rooms that we have here. There’s never any shortage of horny, naughty people looking for phone sex, cyber sex or webcam sex partners here. Roleplaying is quite popular with the cyber sex chatters here and they love to find new people to use their scenarios on. Many of them are quite creative, it’s too bad some don’t write full stories and add them to our erotic short stories section, many people do love to masturbate while reading some erotica to enhance their masturbation experience.
Cumming & Communicating – Masturbation alone is a great feeling for sure, but once you’ve experienced true online fun, you will quickly realize alone just doesn’t cut it anymore. It’s not nearly as fun to do it alone as to share it with another person. So if your masturbation routine could use a bit of spicing up, perhaps some of our members might be able to help you out with that!