Trick Or Treat – Adding some costumes to your lovemaking routine can absolutely kick things up a bit excitement wise in the bedroom. Not everyone is into fancy lingerie or costumes, but once a year for Halloween, it can be a festive change of pace you and your partner might both enjoy. The choices are endless these days due to the availability of online shopping and everything being only a few mouse clicks away.
Spice Things Up – Having a partner look a bit different can be a very good thing, as wonderful as steak is, do you really want it every single night? No, of course not, costumes and wigs and anything that makes things a bit different and out of the ordinary will help the two of you keep things filled with variety and not routine and boring. So many couples that are married don’t even have sex anymore. I can’t even count how many callers say they haven’t had sex in many years or even decades, yet they for some reason stick around. If someone made an effort to be innovative or romantic, they might not be living like roommates.
Tricks Aren’t Just For Kids – You’re never too old to play dress up and have some fun, Halloween isn’t just for the kids, it’s actually become more of an adult holiday the last few decades than it ever was before, and dressing up isn’t just for the elementary aged school set, you can get some racy costumes and have fun doing all sorts of naughty things with your partner. It’s not too late, see what you can come up with for this weekend and enjoy the big day and even bigger night.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Swing, Swing, Swing – Can you benefit from the swinging lifestyle? It’s a question that a lot of couples are asking themselves these days. Monogamy isn’t for everyone and there are those that are honest with themselves about it. There is nothing worse than a person breaking the trust they have with their partner. Swinging allows both people to be honest and upfront about their sexual needs. There are those people out there that need to have multiple partners. They’ll never be satisfied with just one person their entire life.
Variety Is The Spice Of Life – Make sure you find other couples that are actual swingers. Don’t go searching for a guy or a girl that’s just looking for a good time. This usually spells disaster from the very beginning. What these people are looking for is just sex. They aren’t looking to live the swinging lifestyle. Finding couples online is easy and it shouldn’t take you long to find some in your area. Swinging is becoming extremely popular and finding a couple is truly as easy as pointing and clicking when it comes to the internet.
Play Safe – Both you and your partner should get an STD test before meeting with the couple. It’s a good idea to ask the other couple to get one as well. You always want to practice safe sex when you’re swinging. Wearing a condom is a must and never ever have sex without one. It’s common for people to feel more at ease with swingers and let their guard down. You’re health and that of your partner is way too serious to even consider practicing unsafe sex in a swinging environment.
Don’t Knock It Until You Try It – Swinging isn’t for everyone and it might not be for you. Not every person can stomach the idea of someone having sex with their partner. Don’t be surprised if you or your partner decide not to go through with it. If that happens, don’t raise a big fuss over it. Just chalk it up to one of life’s lessons and move on. If you’re looking for more fun, check out The Red Zone – Free Picture And Movie Galleries .
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
From Fantasy To Reality – The importance of living out fantasies can’t be overstated. It’s the very thing that keeps your sex life exciting. It can be easy for sex to become dull and boring. Anyone that’s been with a partner for more than a few months knows that this is the case. It’s why you’re going to want to find new ways to keep everything fresh. A long lasting relationship can only be so if the sex is great. It’s when sex becomes dull and boring that people step outside of the relationship. This is the real danger of allowing your sex life to become dull. Both men and women have sexual needs and often times they’ll do whatever it takes to get them met. Even if it means being in the arms of someone else.
Be Direct About What You Want – The first thing you need to do when living out your fantasies is to communicate them. This means you’re going to need an open line of communication with your partner. You’re both adults and should be able to talk about sex. There’s no need to sugar coat things. Being open and blunt about your fantasies will only ensure that you actually get to live them out. Having to tell your partner what you want in some kind of code will only make it next to impossible to achieve.
Try Some Costumes – Allow yourself to be creative when it comes to your fantasies. Don’t be afraid to act out roles and even wear costumes. It’s not out of the question to wear wigs or even fake tattoos. The sky is the limit when it comes to what you can live out. That’s as long as you’re creative and allow each other to be honest when communicating what your sexual fantasies are. Don’t be shy and always tell your partner when you’ve got a new fantasy. You never know, they may be as excited as you are after hearing about it.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Have A Drink And Relax – A drink or two can be a great way to start a romantic evening. It’ll loosen you up and create an atmosphere in which you’re able to enjoy each other more. Here we’re going to give you some tips on what you should drink. It’s important that you realize the effects that alcohol have on the penis. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman reading this. You’re always going to want to keep in mind that too much alcohol does more than make you act silly. It will make it next to impossible for some guys to get an erection. You’re going to have a limp penis and a belly full of booze if there’s too much alcohol being consumed.
Whiskey Dick – Keep it at a two drink maximum. There’s something you’re going to want to keep in mind when you’re drinking alcohol during a romantic night. If you’re drinking beer, then you’re going to end up going to the toilet a lot. There’s nothing romantic about two people fighting over who gets to use the toilet. Which is what will happen if you’re knocking back beers with your lover. Even at two beers you’re still going to be going to the bathroom a lot.
Cheers To Romance – What’s the most romantic alcoholic drink? It’s champagne and don’t let the fancy expensive sounding name get you down. You can buy sparkling wine that’s a great value and it’s the same thing. Champagne is just a fancy word used for sparkling wine made in the Champagne region of France. A sparkling wine made in California will be just as enjoyable to drink all while being much less expensive. All you need for a romantic evening is a glass of sparkling wine and a candle or two. It’ll get you in the mood for some fun in the sack in no time flat.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
So Many Choices – Any guy that’s ever bought a sex toy for a woman knows how difficult it can be. They come in all different shapes, sizes, and even colors. Here we’re going to give you a brief guide on how to buy a sex toy for a woman. The first thing to realize is that bigger isn’t always better. There can be some really big sex toys for sale at your local adult bookstore. Don’t go for the biggest one that you can find. That is, unless you’re buying it as a gag gift. There is such a thing as being too big and she won’t use the sex toy if it is.
Toys For Pleasure – Should you buy a vibrator or a dildo? The best choice is to go with a modestly sized vibrator. You can get a penis shaped toy that has a vibrator in it. That would be the best of both worlds. The truth is, you want to buy something that she’s going to use. It’s even better if she’ll let you use it on her. That’s like buying yourself a gift in the long run. You’ll end up having way more fun using it on her than she will. Who doesn’t enjoy watching the person they love experience great amounts of pleasure?
Powerful Pleasure – Don’t forget the batteries when buying a sex toy. The adult bookstore where you buy your toys may have batteries. But, they may be expensive or a low quality off brand. Pay close attention to the batteries that your sex toy needs. Then go to the store and get a big package of them. That way the person your giving the toy to can have a real good time with it.
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