What’s That Smell? – Have you smelled your underwear recently? That may seem like an odd question. It’s not as strange as it may sound. You should smell your underwear often just as a reminder. Why? Always remember that’s what you expect someone to put their face in when they give you oral sex. Think about all the daily activities that you do. How many of those make you smell more than a little unpleasant down there? Just imagine what it would be like to have your face right up into that for an extended amount of time.
Get Out The Soap – Are you not receiving the amount of oral sex that you’d like? Maybe it’s because you stink down there. A quick wash with a hot soapy cloth may be all that’s needed. You may consider taking a fast shower before experiencing oral sex. It’s the best way to ensure that your partner won’t get a face full of stink. They’ll also notice that you’re not tasting as bad down there as you normally do. You’d be surprised just how funky your dirty loins can smell and taste. It’s not something most people think about. That is unless they’re face deep in a smelly crotch.
Be Fresh & Clean – Then it’s the only thing a person can think about. Don’t be someone that doesn’t think other person is experiencing when it comes to oral sex. Change that train of thought and you’ll receive oral sex more often. Wash yourself and get rid of the stink. The amount of oral sex you have is sure to increase. Who doesn’t love more oral sex? Wash up often and you’ll be experiencing more of it too. This has been a public service announcement for all those that perform oral sex regularly.
Looking Good – Guys do it and so do gals. The only people who don’t are those who are blind. We’re talking about looking at the opposite sex. You look and so does your partner. It’s a fact of life that everyone has to deal with. There are even plus sides to looking at other people. The truth is, everyone does it. Denying it is futile and it won’t get you very far. Humans are social creatures and looking at other people is natural.
Take A Picture It’ll Last Longer – This is mainly a problem that guys have. Especially those of you that haven’t learned the art of ogling. You need to look without having an expression of a hungry wolf. It’ll do more than make your significant other less jealous. You’ll also make the person you’re looking at feel less uncomfortable. After all, not everyone likes being looked at like they’re a piece of freshly fried chicken. You know how you look at a piece of crispy chicken before eating it at suppertime. That’s the say way you look at someone that’s appealing. Tone it down and you’ll seem less creepy. All while not letting your partner know about your viewing pleasure.
The Green Eyed Monster – Jealousy is one of the worst things in a relationship. It’s something that both parties have to deal with. That doesn’t mean you can’t lessen the impact that it has. If you’re the jealous type, you may want to buy some blinders. They work for horses and it’s worth giving a shot. In all seriousness, don’t get the ogling get to you. Instead, ask your partner what they like about the other person. Try to find ways to make yourself appealing in the same way. You’d be surprised by the little things that get your partner’s attention. Knowing what they are will allow you to improve yourself. This will intern give you the chance to work on your appearance. Self improvement is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship and one can’t grow without it.
Differing Sex Drives – Jerking off isn’t the worst thing in the world. Don’t act like it is when your partner doesn’t want to have sex. As a guy, you want sex just as much as you want food. That’s the truth and your penis knows it. The problem is, your woman probably wants sex a whole lot less than you do. The answer isn’t to run out the door and find someone that’s willing to have sex. It’s a mistake too many men make these days. The consequences of doing so can last a lifetime and a moment of lust isn’t really worth it.
I’m Not In The Mood – Your woman may not want to have sex for a variety of reasons. They could range from being that time of the month, too tired to have sex, or maybe just not in the mood. Just because she doesn’t want to have sex doesn’t mean the world as you know it is collapsing. It simply means it’s time to do what you’ve been doing for most of your life. Are you the kind of guy that greases up his hand or does it dry? Get ready to surf the web for some porn and to clean up your busted nut.
Get Ready For Some Self Lovin’ – Many guys in this situation overreact and make way too much out of it. You’ve been jerking off your entire life. Doing it one more time certainly isn’t going to hurt you. This is why it’s best to have all of your jerking off supplies handy for when you need them. You never know when that throbbing penis needs some tender loving care and your woman isn’t interested.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Listen – Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. Don’t expect your sex life to be great if you don’t talk to your partner. It’s an odd thing to think about. That is, until you actually think about it. Many couples don’t talk to each other. Most people these days live busy lives and they don’t have time to talk about the smallest things. It’s not too surprising that talk about sex would get lost in the mix. If you’re not talking about the important things, it’s safe to say sex isn’t being discussed either.
Regular Communication – Couples must constantly work on improving their communication skills if they expect to have a great sex life. There are plenty of uncomfortable subjects that can arise during some excitement in the bedroom. If you can’t talk about the boss being an asshole at work, then the conversation of farts during oral sex probably won’t happen either. It sounds funny until you’ve had your face next to what smells like a fresh pile of shit. Flatulence is a part of life, but maybe you should discuss your chili with beans lunch choice before oral sex. See, communication really is important.
Absorb What You’re Told – All joking aside, you’ve got to feel free talking about what you like and what you don’t. Thats not going to happen when the lines of communication are broken. Improving your sex life doesn’t start with buying toys or lingerie. It starts by two people talking and listening to each other. If you want a good relationship and a great sex life, it will always begin with communication. If you’re unsatisfied in the bedroom start by talking about something else. You’d be surprised by what a little communication can do.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Not Tonight – Handling rejection in the bedroom can be a difficult thing. Men often take it personally when a woman tells them they dont want to try something new. Neither party should take it personally when the other doesnt want to have a new experience. The other person may very well be nervous about the idea. Maybe they really do want to try anal sex. But, theyre just a little too freaked out about it to actually do it.
Please, Can We Do It? – You first need to understand why your partner said no. Its possible their “no” wasnt exactly what it sounded like it. It very well could be that they either arent ready or they arent in the mood right now. What do you do if your partner flat out says no? The first thing you dont do is freak out. You should figure out why theyre saying no to begin with. If it really is no and they have no interest, drop it. Dont beg or put on some kind of show. Just deal with the fact that they dont want to try something. You can hope that some day maybe theyll change their mind. If they dont, then move on.
No Means No – Dont be one of these people that keep begging and being an asshole. Take no for what it means and find something that theyll be up for. Boundaries are important in the bedroom. Its also important that your partner know that you respect their boundaries. Without this respect a relationship cant survive and thrive.
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