It’s A Bird, It’s A Plane, It’s Superman – Have you heard of cosplay? You probably have. It’s where you dress up like your favorite movie, cartoon, or video game character. It’s something that a lot of people are into. You know where this is going. You don’t have to just dress up like one of these characters at your favorite convention. You can even do it in the bedroom. You can be the big hunk that your woman has always wanted.
Rescue me – Maybe your guy has always wanted to have sex with a princess. You get the drift. Cosplay gives you the chance to live out your fantasies on a whole new level. Let’s be honest for a second. Your partner probably won’t look like a princess or a bodybuilder hunk with abs made of steel. That doesn’t mean you can’t live out the fantasy and have a good time in the process. It’s all about spicing up your sex life. Sometimes things can get far too routine. Many couples stop having sex because everything becomes boring. It’s like you’re going through the motions just one more time. Get it over with and then go on with your day. Cosplay is no different than role playing or anything along those lines. The difference is that it uses your favorite characters and it allows you to think outside the box. You can be a whole different person and sometimes that can be a good thing.
Let’s Get Creative – Cosplay doesn’t have to be expensive. You can even make your own costumes. You can be as creative as you want. It’s truly all about you. What character are you going to be? Here’s a twist that you probably didn’t expect coming. You can even play someone of the opposite sex. A guy can be a damsel in distress that needs saving. Remember, this is just for you and your partner. It’s not just about the sex. What you’re trying to do is have fun and let your hair down. Have a few drinks and put your costume on. Enjoy some fun and a few giggles along the way. It’ll make the experience something that you’ll wonder if it’s a fairytale or not.
Touch Me – The art of massage. Yes, massage is an art. Anyone that’s ever experienced a professional give a massage knows this first hand. It does take a professional to know all the right places to touch. With that said, massage can still be fun at home. You don’t have to be a professional and it can be very arousing. You can watch some YouTube videos or buy a book about the subject. There’s plenty of material out there on how to give massages. All that stuff will help you become better at giving massages.
Rub Me The Right Way – All you really need is a bottle of massage oil and you’re ready to go. The oil makes massages so much more enjoyable. It’s not necessary and you can give massages without oil. Massaging gives you a chance to touch your partner’s body. You’ll relax them and it’ll turn you on at the same time. This is the real beauty when it comes to giving massages. A massage can be thought of as foreplay in some regards. It can get the juices flowing and blood circulating. It’s impossible not to get aroused when you’re giving someone that’s fully nude a massage. You’ll want to get your partner as fully naked as possible. It’ll help you get them in the mood and give you something to enjoy while massaging them. Don’t be surprised if a massage leads to unintentional sex. It’ll happen more often than you think.
Slippery Strokes – It’s the real reason why you’re giving the rub down to begin with. Having someone else touch your body with slippery oily hands can be very arousing. Learn the art of massage and you’re sure to have more fun in the sack. This will be especially true if you’re giving the massages in bed. Start there and you’ll end up scoring more often than you think. It’s the best and only place you should be giving a massage.
Not Getting Lucky? – Every guy reading this wants to get laid. Pussy is the thing that you can’t stop thinking about. Most of you probably have wives or girlfriends. You always thought you’d be having plenty of sex once you shacked up with the chick. Then you find out that bigfoot is easier to find than your woman’s snatch. Most guys in this situation think the problem is with their women. It’s the chicks fault that theres no sex going on. Did you ever think that you may be the reason why youre not getting laid?
Be Generous – That might sound like the craziest thing you’ve ever heard. It also might be the truest thing that you’ve ever read. You might be the reason why you’re not getting any action in the sack. Let’s work on reversing this for the sake of your penis. Don’t overlook the power of flowers and small gifts. You might not be showing your woman how much you appreciate her. It’s not the value or really even the gift itself. What your woman wants to know is that you’re thinking of her. It may surprise you how important this is to your woman. It’s an odd fact of life that you’re going to have to get used to. Buying gifts for your woman should be something that you do on a constant basis. Don’t even try to understand why she likes them so much. Just get it over with and buy them.
Don’t Wish For It, Work For It – Do you want to know how to really score in the sack? Do housework. Wash the floor, do the laundry, cook a meal. All of these things will lead you to having more success in the bedroom. As guys we need to stop being macho and thinking that our lives are so much more difficult. Working women who take care of the household have it harder than men do. It’s the truth and you should realize it. Help around the house and make sure your woman isn’t exhausted when she goes to bed. She’ll reward your hard work with sex. It’s worth washing the dishes and folding some laundry in the long run.
Half The Man You Used To Be – You’re not feeling like the man you used to be. There was a time when you could get an erection just looking at something shaped like breasts. Now you’re not even in the mood to have sex. The first thing most guys in this situation think of is getting some Viagra or another erectile dysfunction medication. What most men don’t realize is, those pills won’t do anything for your sex drive. Sure, they may make you hard, but that doesn’t equal desire. You’ve got to figure out why you aren’t feeling like yourself.
Shape Up – What should you do if you’re lacking the desire to have sex? Hit the gym. More than likely you’re not as fit as you once were. This may not be the entire reason why you’re not in the mood to make love. The problem is more than likely due to a lack of testosterone. That’s the male hormone that keeps everything in check. You can naturally raise your testosterone levels by working out. Don’t go to the gym and think you’ll be working out like an Olympic athlete right away. You may even consider hiring a personal trainer for your first few visits. Diet and exercise play a big part in how your body regulates hormones. This is especially true for guys as they age. Don’t go to the doctor thinking there is something wrong with your penis.
Raging Hormones – You also shouldn’t immediately ask for testosterone replacement therapy. It has side effects that can be much worse than a lack of desire in the bedroom. Go the all natural route and see how you feel. You’ll probably feel the desire to have sex the minute you leave the gym. Your testosterone will be in high gear and you’ll be around lots of half naked women working out. If that doesn’t get your juices flowing, then nothing will.
The Pussy Is Booked – What’s the one thing that you can do to improve your sex life? Plan for sex. Schedule sex in to your daily routine life. Sex doesn’t always have to be a spur of the moment thing. Couples live busy lives and that means finding time to have sex can be difficult. It’s not out of the ordinary for those busy lives to end up making us quite tired at the end of the day.
It’s Sexy Time – This is another advantage to planning to have sex ahead of time. You can choose days when both of you will be less tired and stressed out. This will improve the quality of the sex that you have. Sex that isn’t spontaneous seems to be frowned upon by some couples. They feel that sex should be something that magically happens out of thin air. That’s not the way it works when both of you live busy lives. You’ve got to plan ahead and schedule sex like anything else in life. Chances are pretty good that both of you will rarely ever want sex at the same time. It only happens during vacations or weekends filled with nothing at all to do.
Togetherness Time – Just because sex is planned and not a spur of the moment thing doesn’t mean it has to be dull and boring. Spice up planned sex like you normally would spontaneous sex. You’ll find that it’s easy to get ready for planned sex as you’ll prepare yourself for it hours in advance. Sex is an important part of any relationship. That’s why you take it serious enough to plan for it. It’s the best way to ensure that you’ll have sex and enjoy it as well.
Twitter
Tumblr
Newsletter