That’s Cold! – Here’s an interesting thing you can do to jazz up your sex life. It’s not going to change the way you think about sex forever. It’s not a one pill wonder that will make your loins do somersaults. It is something that you’ve probably never even thought of. Are you ready for this? Are you? Go grab a few ice cubes from your freezer the next time you have sex. Why? You’re going to use them on your partner.
Cool Me Down – Most of you are probably thinking that all this is just hype. How could something as simple as an ice cube heat up your bedroom experience? It can and will. Just be creative with the ice cube. Creativity is key. Drag the ice cube up and down your partner’s body. You can even put the ice cube in areas where the sun doesn’t shine. The cold sensation of the ice cube will get your partner’s attention fast. Simplicity is often overlooked for something more complicated. Many people believe that you need to have expensive lingerie or a high priced bottle of wine to have a fantastic sexual experience. Could an almost free ice cube really excite you more than those things? It can in the hands of a creative person. It puts the focus back on the desires you and your partner feel. It highlights the body and gets you closer to it. It’ll stimulate senses that haven’t be woken up in a long time.
Sexy Shiver – Give it a try. Add an ice cube or two to your next love making session. You’re going to be shocked by how much fun it is. Let your imagination run wild. You’ll be shocked at how the cold sensation takes your partner’s mind off of everything else. Thoughts of anything other than what’s going on in the bedroom are almost impossible. It sounds too good to be true. If it does, then you haven’t tried it yet.
Put A Little Something On – Here’s a unique idea that very well could improve your sex life. Don’t be surprised by the results of this little experiment. You may discover something about your partner that’s totally unexpected. Take your partner shopping with you. You’re going to want to buy something very specific. Ask your partner to pick out one outfit or item of clothing that they think is sexy. This will be something only for the bedroom. It can be as kinky as you want it to be. Maybe, it won’t be kinky at all.
Dress You Up – This is the interesting thing about the experiment. We all have an idea what our partner finds sexy. That doesn’t mean we actually know what they find sexy. This will give you an opportunity to find out what they think is in fact sexy. Keep in mind this isn’t an outfit that you’re going to wear outside. This is an outfit or article of clothing meant for the bedroom only. It can be a short little skirt or those tight underwear for men that Europeans like to wear. It will be interesting to find out what your partner is turned on by. Sex can often become routine. This is never good. It’s healthy to spice things up. You’d be surprised by how big of an impact just one outfit can have. Arousal is a two way street. You’ll become more aroused when your partner is.
You Wear It Well – Your sexual enjoyment will be greatly increased when they’re turned on. Use your imagination. Buy something for your partner that they normally wouldn’t wear. Let them do the same thing for you. Just remember that it’s not for every day wearing. There’s no need to feel uncomfortable in something that’s too skimpy. No one is going to see it other than you and your partner. Knowing this should ease your mind. Be playful and have fun in the bedroom. It’ll go a long ways in improving the quality of sex you and your partner enjoy.
Pace Yourself – Are you overly sexually stimulated? That may appear to be an odd question to ask. It’s not as strange as you may think. The world today is full of sexual stimulation. Everywhere you look there are half naked people advertising something to you. The internet is full of porn. You’re always within reach of something that’s sexually stimulating. This is true even if you’re not seeking it out. What effect does being over sexually stimulated have on your sex life? It can make you less interested in what’s around you.
Everything In Small Doses – Keep in mind what you see online or on television is not at all like your partner. You can easily expect too much out of your partner’s appearance and even performance. This is especially true if you’re watching a lot of porn. You’re going to expect them to perform like a porn star in the sack. Your expectations of them will be too high. Cut back on the sexual stimulation. It’s not as hard as it sounds. You should have days where you try to avoid porn or over stimulating yourself. This will enable you to enjoy sex more. You’ll find that arousal will be easier to achieve. This in turn will have an impact on how your partner thinks of themselves. They’ll be far more into it if you’re extremely turned on by them. Everyone likes to feel that their partner finds them arousing. This is the hidden benefit of not being overly stimulated.
Restrain Yourself – Many couples feel like their sex life is boring. Some of the reason for that is over stimulation. That might not make sense to you now. Cut back on the porn for a few days and then have sex. Notice how different you feel. You’ll understand the impact this has on your sex life. There’s some stimulation that you’re never going to be able to avoid. They’ll always show sexy commercials on television. You can’t avoid seeing billboards with sexy looking people on them. However, there’s quite a bit that you can avoid. Try avoiding it for a short period and see how much of a difference it makes in your sex life. You’ll without a doubt find the results quite shocking.
Sexy Texting – Many of you reading this know what sexting is. Quite a few of you have probably done it at least once. Sexting is sending dirty messages via text message. Think of it as cyber sex of the modern era. The mobile aspect of this is what’s the most attractive. You can sext just about anywhere your imagination will allow it. Just keep in mind you may not want to become fully aroused in some areas. You’re more than likely not going to be able to relieve your arousal while in public. Just something to keep in the back of your mind the next time your sexting while on the bus.
Hot Messages – Why not sext with your partner? Sure, it’s not sex. Does it have to be? No it doesn’t. You don’t need to have sex with them to get all hot and bothered. Remember, sex isn’t just about pleasure. You’re trying to connect to your partner on a much deeper level. This is why sexting can be an important part of your relationship. It’ll enable you to maintain a level of sexual contact with your partner. You’ll be able to let them know you’re still interested with them. So, you don’t want to go full force and text your partner about anal sex? There are some people out there who aren’t really into the whole sexting thing. Still, you can flirt with them. You know the limits your partner is willing to go. Why not tell them how much you’re looking forward to a kiss later on today? Tell them how much you find them attractive.
Naughty Letters – It’s important for your partner to know these things. Give sexting a try. Warm up to it. Don’t get dirty right away. You don’t have to write an erotic novel. All you’re trying to do is have a little fun with each other. Be creative. Explore and learn new things about each other. This is what can make sexting truly valuable. You can say things in a text message that may be uncomfortable in a one on one situation. Make the most of this technology and use it to enhance your love life.
Sex Is More Than A Sport – Can two people have sex without being in love? Sure they can. All it takes is a little arousal and you’re off to the races. Does that mean you should have sex with someone who you don’t love? This is a question that many people today aren’t asking themselves. Sex is viewed as a recreational activity and not love making. The short answer to this simple question is no. You should not have sex with someone whom you aren’t in love with.
Sexual Compatibility – All of this seems to contradict the popular mindset people have today towards sex. The best sex you’ll ever has is with someone who understands your body. Every person is wonderfully uniquely different. It takes time to get to know someone’s body. There are no shortcuts to great sex. There is no need to settle for anything other than the best when it comes to sex. Why should you? Your goal should be to hit as many grand slams in the sack as possible. Striking out is all too common for people who feed their sexual appetite one night stands. Having sex with someone you love has all kinds of benefits. You’re able to try new and exciting things. You’ll be more comfortable in the bed with someone. Trying new things can be quite embarrassing. You’ll feel far less embarrassed with someone you’re comfortable with.
How Deep Is Your Love – Sex isn’t a sport. You don’t win anything for having sex with enormous amounts of people. The only thing you score is an STD. Which, isn’t much of a consolation prize after second rate sex. Stability is what you should be searching for in all aspects of your life. Your sex life is no different. Fall in love. Enjoy the happiness that being in love has to offer. Also, enjoy the great sex. You’ll discover that the sex is a hundred times better. There is no replacement in your life for love. You may spend a lifetime trying to find a replacement. You’ll never find one. Every day of your life should be filled with love. This is the secret to happiness that people today have forgotten. Don’t be one of those people. Fall head over heals, enjoy great sex, and spend your days smiling.
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