Quality Time – At least once per month you and your partner should set aside a little special meal time. It doesn’t have to be at an expensive five star restaurant. The purpose of the meal isn’t to splurge. The real purpose behind it is to give you a chance to be together. Eating is a very communal thing. You should take some time out to enjoy a meal alone with your partner.
Share A Meal, Share Your Life – Every couple needs some alone time. This could be burgers and fries at your favorite local fast food joint. It could also be packing a picnic and going to the park. The place and the food doesn’t matter. What matters is, you’re spending time alone. You’re talking with each other. It’s an opportunity for you to be face to face with each other. Mealtime was once a very important time for couples and families. Sadly, this isn’t the case any more. You need to make it important. Sitting together and eating at least once a month isn’t a very difficult task. If you can’t find the time to do that, then your relationship is on the rocks.
Slow Down and Enjoy Life – Go meet your partner at work and eat lunch with them. Go out of your way if needed. This is how important it is. Always find small pockets of time to spend with your partner. Communication is key to any relationship. Be open and build an atmosphere where anything can be talked about. Eating together is a very important part of this. Even if it’s just once a month. Do it. You’ll notice a difference. Improving your bond will result in more fun in the sack. Don’t believe it? Give it a try. The results will surprise you.
Wham, Bam, Thank You, Ma’am – When was the last time you had a quickie? It’s too bad that quickies have a terrible reputation. They shouldn’t. Every couple should have quickies occasionally. Why not? A quickie gives you the chance to have sex without all the fuss and muss. Sometimes you just want to get the deed done and over with. This is where a quickie comes in. You can also be creative when it comes to quickies. Why not meet your partner at work and have a quickie? Just find some place and go at it. Imagine for a second how happy your partner will be during and after the quickie. It’ll put back that spark in your relationship like nothing else can.
Fast and Furious – Too many people expect sex to be a long drawn out process. It doesn’t always have to be that way. Are quickies just good for men? Not necessarily. Sure, they’re mostly good for men. That doesn’t mean a woman doesn’t enjoy a quick pounding from time to time. That’s what a quickie should be. There’s no need to sugarcoat it in the slightest. It’s the kind of no frills sex that tends to be over quickly. Your sex life shouldn’t have too many quickies in it. If it does, then that’s definitely a problem. Be creative and sneak a quickie in.
Only Once In a While – If all you have are quickies, then it’s time to reevaluate your entire sex life. You’ve got to be open and honest with each other. Quickies should never be a mainstay of your sex life. They’re just one of the many things that you should be doing. A balanced diet is important to your overall health. The same could be said about your sexual habits. You’ve got to keep them in check to maintain a healthy sex life. Quickies, much like potato chips, can be a healthy part of a sexual diet. Just make sure you consume both rarely and enjoy them when you do.
Is That New? – This suggestion may sound strange to some of you. Save up some money so you and your partner can buy one nice outfit each. You don’t have to save up thousands of dollars. Just enough where both of you can dress to impress the other. Keep in mind that you can use this outfit for other occasions also. So, maybe you shouldn’t make it too sexy. This isn’t a good time to go shopping for crotchless panties or edible underwear.
Show Some Pride In Your Appearance – Why would you want to go through all the work of buying a great looking outfit? Every now and then you’ve got to look good for your partner. You’ve really got to wow them. That’s what this is all about. You want to impress the most important person in your life. It can be easy to forget that most of the time you’re not looking your best. Keep in mind what your partner sees every day. Sometimes you’ve just got to impress. This is something you should do at least a few times a year.
You Wear It Well – Go out and buy yourself something nice. Make sure that you’re with them the first time you wear it. Doing so will cement the outfit in their memory. Every time your partner sees it, they’ll remember the first time you wore it. You’ve got to keep your relationship fresh and relevant. Even those who deeply love each other can find themselves bored in the relationships. It’s your job to keep things exciting. Visual attraction is important for both men and women. You should try your best to be visually attractive every now and then. Life today is busy and there might not always be time to look your best. That doesn’t mean you should forget how important attraction is. Want to really mix things up? Have your partner pick out the outfit. You may be surprised by what they think is attractive.
Finger My Ass, Please – Your heart is beating fast right now. You’re shaking and definitely confused. Collect your thoughts. There’s no reason to freak out. You’ve got to get a hold of yourself! Your man only asked you to stick a finger up his asshole. It’s not the end of the world. Sure, it may be a little gross at first. That doesn’t mean you’re not going to like sticking a finger up his poop chute eventually. It’s not uncommon for a man to want to have his prostate stimulated during oral sex. Many men actually enjoy it. However, shouldn’t finger bang your man’s asshole without his permission. The shock of having a finger shoved where the sun doesn’t shine may be something he can’t recover from. Keep the asshole fingering as an optional blowjob accessory. It doesn’t always have to be a package deal.
Enhance Oral Sex – Don’t flip out if your man wants you to shove a finger up his ass while you’re sucking his dick. If it freaks you out, don’t do it. You can also put on a rubber glove before doing it. You’re not going to want to use one of those yellow dish washing gloves. The latex variety that medical professionals use are what you want. You should be able to find these at any drug store. They actually do make something called finger condoms. These are generally used by people in the tech industry. They do exist, but you may have a difficult time finding them.
Tickle My Prostate – Try pounding his asshole with one of your digits. Ask him what feels good and what doesn’t. That’s the only way you’ll learn what your man likes. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, simply stop. There’s no reason why anyone should feel uncomfortable during sex. You may find your partner’s added pleasure very exciting. If this is the case, it may just become second nature. Just don’t forget to wash your hand afterwards. You’ll be left with a stinky finger if you don’t.
Doable Fantasies – Don’t let porn videos or romance novels make your fantasies impossible. It can be way too easy to let that happen. You’re not even going to realize it. This is the problem with subjecting yourself to too much erotic material. Tame down your fantasies. Make sure they’re realistic. Just because you see or read something doesn’t mean you can do it.
Fantasy To Reality – How do you know if your fantasies aren’t realistic? Are you living them out? If not, then you need to dial it back a little. You can easily feel like a let down if your fantasies aren’t doable. You’ll feel like you aren’t achieving your sexual goals. This will have a negative impact on your sex life. Now you see why it’s important to have realistic fantasies. None of this means you shouldn’t shoot for the stars when it comes to your fantasies. You can always have one that’s almost unreachable. Just keep most of them realistic. Everyone knows the limits of their relationship. There’s no need to set the bar so high you can’t reach it. Instead, develop realistic fantasies that are within reach.
Hot Scenarios – Fantasies are extremely important. They allow you to be creative in the sack. A fantasy is a sexual dream that can come true. It can if you make them reasonable. A realistic fantasy is one where you can envision yourself living out. If you can’t, then it’s time to go back to the drawing board. There’s nothing wrong with modifying your fantasies to fit the real world. Actually, it’s quite logical.
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