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Communication In Bed Is Key

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Stop Doing That – How do you handle your partner’s bad habits in the sack? Maybe your woman always wants to stick her finger up your ass during oral sex. Your guy may be yanking a little too hard on your ponytail while nailing you from behind. How do you tell your partner to stop doing these things? Chances are your partner does at least one thing in the sack that you don’t like. At some point you’re going to have to break the news to them.

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Break It Gently – The first thing you want to do is make sure you’re not condescending about it. People are very sensitive when it comes to their sexual performance. You don’t want to tell you’re partner they aren’t the best in the world. It’ll bum them out in ways that you can’t even begin to understand. Egos are really big when it comes to sex. That’s why you have to let them down easy. Be gentle and overly cautious when telling them about something you don’t like.

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Pay Attention – Communication is key for any relationship. No relationship can survive without it. You’re going to have to talk about these things. Sure, you could tattoo a message near your asshole letting them know no fingers are allowed. How can you be certain they’ll read it? You could end up going through a lot of trouble for little to no results. Great sex is the product of many things. Communication is one of those things. Tell him your nipples aren’t a chew toy. Hopefully they’ll catch on eventually.

Communicate With Your Partner

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This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.

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Listen – Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. Don’’t expect your sex life to be great if you don’’t talk to your partner. It’’s an odd thing to think about. That is, until you actually think about it. Many couples don’’t talk to each other. Most people these days live busy lives and they don’’t have time to talk about the smallest things. It’’s not too surprising that talk about sex would get lost in the mix. If you’’re not talking about the important things, it’’s safe to say sex isn’’t being discussed either.

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Regular Communication – Couples must constantly work on improving their communication skills if they expect to have a great sex life. There are plenty of uncomfortable subjects that can arise during some excitement in the bedroom. If you can’’t talk about the boss being an asshole at work, then the conversation of farts during oral sex probably won’’t happen either. It sounds funny until you’’ve had your face next to what smells like a fresh pile of shit. Flatulence is a part of life, but maybe you should discuss your chili with beans lunch choice before oral sex. See, communication really is important.

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Absorb What You’re Told – All joking aside, you’’ve got to feel free talking about what you like and what you don’’t. That’s not going to happen when the lines of communication are broken. Improving your sex life doesn’’t start with buying toys or lingerie. It starts by two people talking and listening to each other. If you want a good relationship and a great sex life, it will always begin with communication. If you’’re unsatisfied in the bedroom start by talking about something else. You’’d be surprised by what a little communication can do.

Erotic Audio Recordings & Phone Sex

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Erotic Audio Recordings – Sex sounds of other people can indeed be very sexually stimulating. For some people, hearing another in the throes of orgasm is much more erotic than watching porn of the same thing. Many men are very visual and unless they are watching, they really won’t be aroused much. Some however such as visually impaired people cannot enjoy porn, so audio stimulation is all that they have in the way of audio or visual arousal. Even ones with perfect vision are often not aroused by porn and find audio far sexier.

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Sex Sounds – Imagine for a moment people halfway around the world getting turned on by your sex sounds. The sounds you make as you masturbate or the sounds you and your sex partner produce together. That’s pretty amazing that people so far away can be turned on by the way you sound, your breathing, your moans, your orgasmic screams of ecstasy as you pleasure yourself and cum.

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Phone Sex – Not everyone is comfortable enough to have full on phone sex, yet they love another’s sexy voice. Some are just too shy or don’t know what to say at all. I can promise you, there can be plenty hot phone sex even with very minimal speaking. Moaning and breathing is very sexually arousing in and of itself, and is very natural to hear during such times of pleasure. Think about it. What is more natural to have happen during actual sex, listening to natural moaning and breathing sounds from another person, or watching some fake, produced porn? No question. So many people have outright desensitized themselves by watching porn, yet I doubt too many have become numb from listening to another moan and breathe sexily on the other end of the phone. Phone sex and erotic audios-the more natural choice! They can enhance your masturbation experience a great deal, and we hope you find some that will make you happy here at Climax Connection.

Phone Sex Partners For You!

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The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.

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Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.

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Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!

Listen To Me….

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Call Me – What do you think would greatly jazz up your masturbation routine? Phone sex, that’s what. If you haven’t tried it, I seriously encourage you to get on the phone sex bandwagon. The sound of another person as they are breathing heavy right into your ear as they are stroking themselves is fantastic. The right partner makes all the difference. If you find someone and are just looking for what I call “hit and run phone sex”, you’re likely going to be disappointed.

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Hear Me Roar – If you find someone and chat with them a few times before getting naughty though, you’re much more likely to have a good experience and not as high of a chance of someone hanging up on you and leaving you hanging and wanting more and perhaps having to finish alone. Many people think because they are online and their identities are not revealed that manners do not apply, so they behave accordingly. I shudder to think if they behave the same way to people in their real lives. It’s always much nicer to play with someone you’re familiar with and occasional phone sex partners with than a stranger you anticipate will just be a one time thing.

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Sounds Like Fun – A long term phone sex relationship can be a wonderful thing. That’s not to say you’re going to fall in love with them, or them with you, it’s just a comfort thing. You can feel so much more relaxed with someone when you know what to expect and what they expect from you. Phone sex buddies can be like fuck buddies I guess, though I never had one of those. Casual sex isn’t for me, but phone sex, you rarely know the people you play with well usually, so it feels fine to be semi casual with phone partners. Looking online for just the right match for you can be tricky, but it certainly can and does happen, but it can take lots of hunting. Chat rooms are a good place to try and find like minded people looking for the same thing. So check out the chat rooms and see who interests you.