I'm a character right out of a bad novel too cliche to even become a screenplay. You have to interact with me to know what you're really getting into. Talk to me and we'll see if I'm charming enough to hold your attention. If I'm not your cup of tea what can i say, I have nothing against a strong cup of coffee.
At the end of the day we're all many things. What you get depends on what you bring out in each other and how comfortable you're made to feel. The most important thing you have to know about me is that no matter how cliche or syrupy I act I am always sincere.
seriously WTF is the difference between a private message and attempting to speak in the room as long as you're polite? Why call attention to the fact you want to say something "privately"?? You don't have to be interested but don't hide behind calling it disrespectful either. Just because you want asn audience doesn't make every attempt to whisper to someone impolite. We get it, you're popular.