Several guys have recommended that I am blunt in my profile with what I wan't and don't want. So here it goes: I'm not into the cyber sex thing. Tried it once-- not my thing and don't wish to try it again (having to type, then play, then type, then play is just annoying). I don't want to be messaged with "Hey wanna have phone sex right now?" because I'm really not looking for someone to just get off with-- I'm looking for someone to have an ongoing phone sex relationship with (and don't take that to mean a romantic relationship-- I just really mean that I want good phone sex, which I think takes getting to know someone and wanting to genuinely please them and get into a great rhythm with them). I don't do anal, I'm not into rape fantasies. I don't do incest fetish type things. I have an age cut off of mid-40s. Sorry to the really nice guys who are in their 50s and older.
Don't ask me for a picture or to webcam-- I really want to maintain my anonymity with my career. If things progress to an ongoing phone/skype sex relationship, I may feel comfortable at that point, but until then, don't ask.
In terms of what I like-- I'm a fan of the build up. I love subtle sexiness. I am turned on by masculinity and anything that makes me feel feminine. I like feeling a man's breath on my neck or ear when he whispers to me, his hand on my lower back as he guides me through a restaurant, feeling his eyes on me when I reach for something up high. I love wearing dresses and skirts and heels. I enjoy dressing up in lingerie and even sexy costumes (although I'm a bad actress and am very shy when it comes to role playing). I love gentle domination-- i know that's a bit of an oxymoron, but it works, trust me. I love being thrown around, pinned against walls and counters and desks, and being told i belong to someone. And I have a thing for deep masculine voices.
I really hope I can find someone out there. I think life would be a bit more cheerful having someone to have mutual orgasms with over the phone/skype.
PS: I'm not going to give out my skype or any other contact info until I feel comfortable after chatting (not just messaging) with someone.