A Day Of Romance – Valentine’s Day will be here before you know it. Guys often make the mistake of thinking that this is just another commercial holiday. A day meant for nothing more than spending your money. There may be some truth in all of this. That’s not the way you want to approach this day though. If you do, be prepared for all out war. Your woman is never going to understand why you think it’s not a good idea to celebrate a manufactured holiday. Don’t even think about going there.
Symbols Of Love – For most couples Valentine’s Day is about more than just expensive gifts. It’s a day where you can celebrate your relationship. You can openly discuss why you’re in love with each other. This is the true value of Valentine’s Day. A box of chocolates or even holiday sex is less important than this. That may seem far fetched to all of you who very rarely get any action. It truly is more about more than just a quick romp in the sack. People need to have the reason why their partner loves them reaffirmed. It’s sad to think that a holiday is the day most people will choose to do this.
Express Your Love – The most important lesson about Valentine’s Day can be learned simply by listening. Take a moment and share with each other why you’re in love. Don’t be shy and never hold back. You shouldn’t need a special day of the year to tell your partner why you love them. This should be done every day. Not everyone is good when it comes to expressing their feelings. This is something that every person needs to get use to. The relationship cannot grow if there is no honesty. There will be times when you need to tell your partner that you’re not happy. Just like there will be times when you tell them you’ve never been happier in your entire life. The full spectrum of emotion should be expected throughout the duration of any relationship.
Enjoy The Love – Take this day and enjoy it the way you see fit. Splurge and buy your partner something they like. Take a moment that just a few minutes to yourselves. Reaffirm to each other the values of your relationships. Love is the most beautiful thing any human will ever experience. The hope should be that you get to enjoy it every day and not just once a year. Work towards this and make every day Valentine’s Day. It’s not easy, but to reward is well worth it.
Timing Is Everything – When is the worst time to tell someone you love them? When you’re face deep in their genitals. Sure, everyone wants to feel loved. There’s a time and a place for such expression. Many people don’t feel comfortable saying those three words. For whatever reason some people may feel more comfortable during the heat of the moment. Back up and just forget about it. Don’t even think about telling your partner how much you love them. It’s almost like you’re talking directly to their genitals. That’s never a good place to start a conversation.
Is There Ever A Wrong Time? – All this might sound funny to some of you. Those of you with a partner who doesn’t know how to express their love know all about this topic. They’ll tell you how much they love you at the strangest times. It can be easy to fall into the same trap as them. The only way out is to live by example. You need to be open about your love throughout the day. Don’t just limit it to sex. Doing so will reinforce the idea that this is the appropriate time for such announcements.
Look Them In The Eye – Are you the type that tells your lover your feelings while face deep in their naughty parts? If so, try to break that habit. It’s kind of cheesy. It makes them think that you only love them for sex. Instead, leave little reminders of your love. You’ll eventually feel more comfortable telling your special someone just how much you love them. This will in turn make them feel better. Who knows, you may even get more action in the sack because of it.
Sex Is More Than A Sport – Can two people have sex without being in love? Sure they can. All it takes is a little arousal and you’re off to the races. Does that mean you should have sex with someone who you don’t love? This is a question that many people today aren’t asking themselves. Sex is viewed as a recreational activity and not love making. The short answer to this simple question is no. You should not have sex with someone whom you aren’t in love with.
Sexual Compatibility – All of this seems to contradict the popular mindset people have today towards sex. The best sex you’ll ever has is with someone who understands your body. Every person is wonderfully uniquely different. It takes time to get to know someone’s body. There are no shortcuts to great sex. There is no need to settle for anything other than the best when it comes to sex. Why should you? Your goal should be to hit as many grand slams in the sack as possible. Striking out is all too common for people who feed their sexual appetite one night stands. Having sex with someone you love has all kinds of benefits. You’re able to try new and exciting things. You’ll be more comfortable in the bed with someone. Trying new things can be quite embarrassing. You’ll feel far less embarrassed with someone you’re comfortable with.
How Deep Is Your Love – Sex isn’t a sport. You don’t win anything for having sex with enormous amounts of people. The only thing you score is an STD. Which, isn’t much of a consolation prize after second rate sex. Stability is what you should be searching for in all aspects of your life. Your sex life is no different. Fall in love. Enjoy the happiness that being in love has to offer. Also, enjoy the great sex. You’ll discover that the sex is a hundred times better. There is no replacement in your life for love. You may spend a lifetime trying to find a replacement. You’ll never find one. Every day of your life should be filled with love. This is the secret to happiness that people today have forgotten. Don’t be one of those people. Fall head over heals, enjoy great sex, and spend your days smiling.
What’s Love Got To Do With It? – Love and sex are two very different things. It can be easily mashed up into something that doesn’t reflect reality. The difference tends to go along the lines of how men and women think. A man can easily have sex with a woman and have no feelings of love towards her at all. For men, sex is much like food. You probably don’t feel all warm and fuzzy for a cheeseburger you’re about to eat. The same could be said in many sexual situations that men find themselves in.
Let’s Keep It Casual – Sex for a man is more about availability than anything else. A woman has sex with a man for emotional reasons. Most often than not, it’s all about love. The woman feels an emotional connection to the man and has sex with him. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some women who can freely have sex without any feeling of attachment. This isn’t the norm and women who are honest with themselves understand this.
Why Do You Want Me ? – The differences in male and female sexuality is merely about how we perceive the world around us. Why is this important? We live in a society were we’re constantly trying to read in between the lines. Why does this guy want to fuck me? Why did she suck my cock last night? Look deeper into the reasoning behind the person’s actions. By doing so you’ll understand what their intent is. Maybe the chick that blew you last night was just drunk and horny. The guy that keeps chasing you around the office really may be in love with you. Don’t ever allow yourself to read into something that may not exist. Your guy friend may just want some pussy and he doesn’t really care about your love of artisan cheese in the slightest. Understand the motivation of people in your sex life will help you to determine what type of relationship is right.
Love Connections – It’s come to my attention from several members telling me, and thanking me, that for them Climax Connection isn’t just a chat site, or a hook up site, but a site where they have made real, true meaningful connections with people. Nothing could make me happier than knowing ones truly ARE connecting here. I wanted a deeper, more meaningful site than just chat with someone for 5 minutes, then cyber and part ways never to cross paths again.
Online Love – The world we live in today is much more global than it ever has been before, many connections and relationships do begin online. People just don’t need to go out to meet people like they did in the past. With ones being far away many times from family, people aren’t meeting partners through family introductions as commonly as they once were. While it is true this site isn’t a traditional dating type of site, it was designed for ones looking for online fun partners, it’s good to know that for several people, and who knows how many more that just haven’t told me, that they are finding even more than that. I’m beginning to feel like a virtual matchmaker.
Reach Out And Touch Someone – For ones that may live in small towns or unable to socialize much in the regular ways, online interactions take on even more importance. Some may not have a sexual partner, so masturbation is their only sexual outlet and finding someone and masturbating with them online, either by cyber, sexting, phone sex or web cam sex. Sharing that intimate part of yourself with another person makes it so much more of an enjoyable experience. I’m just waiting for the announcement of the first Climax Connection wedding! Well, we aren’t quite their just yet, but I’m happy some couples have found happiness because of this site. That was the whole purpose of it.
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