Looking For Love, No Matter Your Age – It may surprise some people that a growing community of senior citizens exist online. Each and every day there are more older people going to the internet to do many things. Computing technology has changed over the past decade. Everyone has the iPhone to thank for that. Today it’s possible to surf the internet with a device that literally fits in the palm of your hand. Never before has the internet been so accessible to people from all corners of the globe. The world of dating may seem frightening if you’re an older person. It shouldn’t be.
Be Yourself – Older people can use many of the same dating sites that younger people use. There are even dating sites that are geared towards older people. The fact is, there are sites that focus on just about any type of person you may be looking for. Do you live in a rural farming community? If so, there’s even a dating site for you. Here is a short list of tips for anyone who may be considering online dating: Don’t give too much information in your profile. You don’t need to give them your address or anything like that. Just tell potential dates about yourself. Be honest and straightforward. You should be clear what you’re looking for in a partner. Post up to date pictures in your profile. You don’t need to go over the top and dress like you’re on the red carpet. You also don’t want to use a picture that’s thirty years old. Just imagine the shocked look on their face when they see you don’t actually look like that any more. Use your cam and talk before meeting. Sure, you can talk on the phone. Seeing the person is much better. Most smartphones and laptops have cams. You can use free software like Skype to connect and talk with each other. You should take a look at the person before meeting them.
New Ways to Meet – You’d be surprised by how much you can pick up about a person from seeing and talking to them. Meet each other in a public place. Restaurants are fantastic places to meet. So are bowling alleys and shopping malls. You don’t want to put yourself at risk by inviting them to your home. Never trust anyone who you don’t know. Just because they seem nice online doesn’t mean they aren’t a crook. Always practice safe sex. Even though pregnancy isn’t an issue, that doesn’t mean you’re home free. Sexually transmitted diseases are what you’re concerned about. Use a condom. At this point in your life you know how to use one. Protect yourself and learn about your new partner. Go get tested if you want to not use protection. Each day older people are connecting and forming relationships. It may surprise the younger generations that these relationships are budding as the result of online dating. Love is precious no matter how old you are. Every person deserves to experience the joy of being in love. No person, regardless of age, should ever deny themselves of this wonderful thing.
How About You? – How often does the average couple have sex? Most guys think they’re not having enough sex. If they only knew how little action the average guy gets. Couples have sex anywhere from once a week to just one time per month. That’s the normal range for the typical couple. Think about that for just a second. Do you get laid that often? If so, you should consider yourself lucky. It’s not uncommon for new couples to have sex all the time. The sex tends to tamper down as the relationship grows. Kids play another factor in that. Family life can be very draining. It eats up your time and all of your energy. Life has a way of getting in between couples and sex.
Make Sex a Priority – Gone are the days of 9-5 jobs. It used to be that couples worked the same hours. It was just a few short decades ago that women debated about working outside of the home. Sex was a whole lot easier when the old lady was home and dinner was on the table. Today, lives are busy and couples are far apart from each other. How many times a month do you get laid? More than four? If so, you’re in the minority. Less than once and you’ve got a problem. Don’t shoot for sex every day of the week. It’s not possible for most couples these days.
Don’t Let it Slide – A few times a week is optimum for new couples. As you age the number will go down. This is natural and you shouldn’t be alarmed by it. You should only be alarmed if the sex dries up completely. Sex has an ebb and flow to it. You may get laid more during vacations or holidays. Times that are stressful may produce less results in the sack. A healthy relationship is one that fluctuates in the amount of sex you have. Nothing in life is truly consistent. Don’t be surprised if the action in the bedroom isn’t.
Public Pleasuring – So, you’re thinking about jerking off or finger banging yourself in public. It’s something that you’ve been wanting to do for quite some time. Don’t let your fantasy turn into a rap sheet. You can easily end up in jail for masturbating in public. That is, if you get caught. Here we’re going to give you some things to consider before pleasuring yourself in a public place. Remember, safety is key. You don’t want to end up finishing yourself off in a jail cell.
Be Careful Where You Do It – Whatever you do, avoid masturbating in places where families are likely to visit. This means you’re not going to want to touch yourself at the park. Unless there’s a spot where no one can see you. If that’s the case, then go to town. You’re going to want to keep an eye out for anyone who may come your way. This is the problem with parks in general. They’re meant for people to enjoy. There are constantly people walking around the park. Do you remember what happened to Paul Reubens a few years ago back? He was caught jerking off in an adult movie theater. You’re probably going to want to learn from his lesson. Restaurants, movie theaters, and shopping malls all make for bad places to masturbate. If you can’t fight the urge, then go into the bathroom and do it. Just try to be quiet and discreet. No one should bother you in there. You’ll also want to make sure the door is closed and locked. That is, unless you’re in the mood to give out free peep shows.
The Thrill of The Risk – Where should you satisfy yourself in public? A parked car always works well. You can pull into a secluded area and do the deed. Public bathrooms work in a pinch. If you desire to masturbate in front of total strangers, there’s plenty of opportunities to do that online. There’s no shortage of people who are playing with themselves while on cam. It just takes a little effort to find a community of people who like to do this sort of thing. If all else fails, you can always try your hand at camming. Some people earn a living playing with themselves while others watch. You’d make yourself feel good and make some money in the process. All while people watched and that may be just enough to get you hot and bothered.
Don’t Be an Incel – There’s been a lot of talk online about people who can’t get laid. These people, mostly men, have found a place on the internet where they can share their sorrows. Many of these guys talk about violence towards women. Their inability to get laid has made them feel violent towards whom they feel are responsible. Some have even acted out on their violent thoughts. This is highly inexcusable. Just because you can’t get some pussy shouldn’t mean others have to suffer.
Too Lazy to Hunt – Do you think you’re one of these guys who can’t get any action? If you think that way, you’re wrong. Almost every single guy reading this can get some pussy. Almost is the keyword because some guys are way too lazy to score in the sack. There’s plenty of women out there who want to fuck. You just need to hook up with the right ones. They aren’t going to come to you. If it were that easy, no guy on planet earth would ever jerk off again. Sometimes you have to settle for less than ideal during dry spells. Not every chick you bag will be a perfect ten. You’re going to have to lower your standards. This is a far better idea that getting pissed off and spouting bullshit online. That’s what quite a few guys are doing these days instead of working harder to get their dick wet. It’s kind of sad really. It’s even more sad when those people turn to violence. At the end of the day, you just want to fuck. That’s it. Search for someone who wants the same thing. If you live in a big city, there’s going to be plenty of women who are looking for sex. If there are things getting in your way, fix them. Get a better job so you can afford to take women out. Lose some weight and make yourself look attractive. Hit the gym and work on your appearance.
Search Harder – It’s very rare in today’s world that a man can’t get some stink on his dink. Take a look around at all the guys who have ugly chicks on their arm. Those girls are holding the guys over until they find something better. You don’t have to hang your head in sorrow. Go out there and get yourself some tail. Whatever you do, don’t act violent towards women. It’s not their fault if you’re too lazy to get some action. There isn’t a man reading this now who couldn’t at least get a handjob if they tried hard enough. Keep your chin up and your eyes open for any and all opportunities to hop in the sack. The last thing you want to do is miss out on a golden opportunity to bust that precious nut of yours.
Why Are They Watching? – What should you do if you discover your partner has been looking at pornography? Don’t think this is a question just women have. Women are increasingly turning to porn to satisfy their need for arousal. There are many reasons for this and none of them are the point of this article. Most people, men or women, turn to porn due to a lack of sex. That’s the reason why porn exists in a nutshell.
Are They Turned On? – Should you freak out if you find out that your partner looks at porn? Maybe break a vase or two in the process? Relax, don’t get upset. Instead, investigate what they’re looking at. Ask them what type of porn they’re watching. You may even want to try watching it with them. Does your partner seem more aroused during certain sex acts than others? If so, ask if they’d like you to do that to them. Use this as a learning opportunity to discover why you’re partner is looking at porn. If you’re not having enough sex, then that’s more than likely the reason. It could also be that the sex you are having isn’t fulfilling their needs. Remember, you’re not fooling around in the sack just to pass the time. The goal should always be to fulfill the others needs. If this is done, the result will more than likely be a reduction in porn viewing. Even some highly sexually active people still look at porn.
Relax – Masturbation for some people is a stress reliever. They play with themselves as a means of getting rid of whatever stress has been bottling up. This can be healthy depending on how often a person masturbates. If masturbation is getting in the way of day to day life, then it’s a signal something else entirely is wrong. That’s a topic for a whole different article.